How long should newborns sleep during the day
Sleep and Your Newborn (for Parents)
Newborns don't yet have a sense of day and night. They sleep around the clock, and because their tiny stomachs don't hold enough breast milk or formula to keep them satisfied for long, they wake often to eat — no matter what time of day or night it is.
How Long Will My Newborn Sleep?
Newborns should get 14–17 hours of sleep over a 24-hour period, says the National Sleep Foundation. Some newborns may sleep up to 18–19 hours a day.
Newborns wake every couple of hours to eat. Breastfed babies feed often, about every 2–3 hours. Bottle-fed babies tend to feed less often, about every 3–4 hours.
Newborns who sleep for longer stretches should be awakened to feed. Wake your baby every 3–4 hours to eat until he or she shows good weight gain, which usually happens within the first couple of weeks. After that, it's OK to let your baby sleep for longer periods of time at night.
The first months of a baby's life can be the hardest for parents, who might get up many times at night to tend to the baby. Each baby has a different sleep pattern. Some start to sleep "through the night" (for 5–6 hours at a time) by 2–3 months of age, but some don't.
How Should Babies Sleep?
During the first weeks of a baby's life, some parents choose to room-share. Room-sharing is when you place your baby's crib, portable crib, play yard, or bassinet in your own bedroom instead of in a separate nursery. This keeps baby nearby and helps with feeding, comforting, and monitoring at night. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends room-sharing without bed-sharing.
While room-sharing is safe, putting your infant to sleep in bed with you is not. Bed-sharing increases the risk of SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome) and other sleep-related deaths.
Follow these recommendations for a safe sleep environment for your little one:
- Always place your baby on their back to sleep, not on the stomach or side. The rate of SIDS has gone way down since the AAP began recommending this in 1992.
- Use a firm, flat sleep surface. Cover the mattress with a sheet that fits snugly.
- Do not put anything else in the crib or bassinet. Keep plush toys, pillows, blankets, unfitted sheets, quilts, comforters, sheepskins, and bumper pads out of your baby's sleep area.
- To avoid overheating, dress your baby for the room temperature and don't overbundle. Don't cover your baby's head while they're sleeping. Watch for signs of overheating, such as sweating or feeling hot to the touch.
- Keep your baby away from smokers. Secondhand smoke increases the risk of SIDS.
- Offer a pacifier to your baby at sleep time, but don’t force it. If the pacifier falls out during sleep, you don’t have to replace it. If you're breastfeeding, wait until breastfeeding is firmly established.
- Watch out for other hazards, such as items with cords, ties, or ribbons that can wrap around a baby's neck, and objects with any kind of sharp edge or corner. Look around for things that your baby can touch from a seated or standing position in the crib. Hanging mobiles, wall hangings, pictures, draperies, and window blind cords could be harmful if they are within a baby's reach.
- Don’t let your baby fall asleep on a product that isn’t specifically designed for sleeping babies, such as a sitting device (like a car seat), a feeding pillow (like the Boppy pillow), or an infant lounger (like the Dock-a-Tot, Podster, and Bummzie).
- Don’t use products or devices that claim to lower the risk of SIDS, such as sleep positioners (like wedges or incliners) or monitors that can detect a baby’s heart rate and breathing pattern. No known products can actually do this.
- Don’t use weighted blankets, sleepers, or swaddles on or around your baby.
- Make sure that all sleep surfaces and products you use to help your baby sleep have been approved by the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) and meet federal safety standards.
Helping Your Newborn Sleep
Newborns follow their own schedule. Over the next couple of weeks to months, you and your baby will begin to settle into a routine.
It may take a few weeks for your baby's brain to know the difference between night and day. Unfortunately, there are no tricks to speed this up, but it helps to keep things quiet and calm during middle-of-the-night feedings and diaper changes. Try to keep the lights low and resist the urge to play with or talk to your baby. This will send the message that nighttime is for sleeping. If possible, let your baby fall asleep in the crib at night so your little one learns that it's the place for sleep.
Don't try to keep your baby up during the day in the hopes that your little one will sleep better at night. Overly tired infants often have more trouble sleeping at night than those who've had enough sleep during the day.
If your newborn is fussy it's OK to rock, cuddle, and sing as your baby settles down. Swaddling (wrapping the baby in a light blanket) can also help to soothe a crying baby. If you swaddle your baby and they start trying to roll over, that is a sign that you can stop swaddling. For the first months of your baby's life, "spoiling" is definitely not a problem. In fact, newborns who are held or carried during the day tend to have less colic and fussiness.
When Should I Call the Doctor?
While most parents can expect their newborn to sleep or catnap a lot during the day, the range of what is normal is quite wide. If you have questions about your baby's sleep, talk with your doctor.
Newborn Sleep Schedules + Patterns– Nested Bean
With a baby on the way, or perhaps just arrived, you have probably been warned about the sleepless nights in your near future. Every parent knows that sleep deprivation is just part of the package – but don't worry, the priceless, magical moments you spend with your baby in their first few weeks make it all worth it. If you start to establish a newborn sleep schedule during the early stages of parenthood, you could save yourself a lot of stress in the long run.
We've broken down newborn sleep patterns to give you suggested newborn sleep routines all the way through your baby's first year. We'll also answer all your questions revolving around newborn sleep - like, how much sleep do they actually need? How can I make sure my baby becomes a “good sleeper” and more! Click the links below to skip to the sample newborn sleep schedule:
0-6 Weeks Newborn Sleep Schedule
2 to 3 Months Baby Sleep Schedule
4 to 6 Months Baby Sleep Schedule
6 to 10 Months Baby Sleep Schedule
10 to 12 Months Baby Sleep Schedule
First, let’s get the most important question answered and out of the way:
Will I ever sleep again?
The answer is...YES! Having a newborn baby is exhausting - we know! Infant sleep hours feel erratic and unpredictable at first. But there will be a light at the end of the tunnel! Our newborn sleep schedules will help you decode your baby's sleep and guide you along the way to “sleep success” (A.K.A. a peaceful ☺, full-night's sleep EVERY. NIGHT.). It will take patience, but our newborn sleep schedules will help you get there.
How do I make sure my baby gets the right amount of sleep?
Overstimulation during the day can cause your baby to either sleep too little or sleep when they should be eating, due to exhaustion. Newborn babies need to be fed frequently to ensure proper development.
If your newborn baby becomes overtired (meaning they've been awake too long between naps) they will become fussy, and harder to settle for sleep. We've given age-targeted tips to help avoid overstimulation and improve your baby's sleep in the sleep schedules below. For more information on how much sleep your baby needs and how long they should be sleeping at a time (as well as when you should consider waking your baby to feed) read How Much Do Newborns Sleep?
Learning your baby's sleep cycle
While your baby has your nose or eyes, the two of you couldn't be farther apart when it comes to sleep cycle! The main reason your newborn's sleep patterns are unpredictable is because of their evolving sleep cycle.
Adults can easily pass from one sleep cycle into the next without completely waking up. Newborns, however, don't stay in deep sleep (REM sleep) for long periods at a time, so they are more susceptible to frequent wake-ups. Our post, Your Baby's Sleep Cycle, explains more in-depth about how your baby's sleep cycle is linked to their sleep patterns.
Around 3 or so months, your baby's sleep cycle will change to look a little more like yours, which is why this is the same age you'll notice more stable and predictable sleeping patterns emerge. Unfortunately, shortly after 3 months into the 4th month, your baby also goes through many physiological changes, which may affect their sleep cycle and patterns; commonly called the 4 month sleep regression.
To learn more about the changes to your baby's sleep cycle and how to cope with sleep regression, read our post 10 Tips to Surviving the 4 Month Sleep Regression.
How much sleep does my baby need?
The short answer: A LOT. Your newborn will spend the majority of time sleeping, and the rest of their time eating - this is especially true for the first few weeks. As a 6-week-old baby, your newborn will sleep up to 18 hours for every 24 hour period - in their first few days of being alive, they'll sleep even more! Of course, as your baby grows they'll need less and less sleep each day. Our newborn sleep schedules break it down for you and apps can help you track naps and nighttime sleep.
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Wondering if your newborn is sleeping too much? Want to learn more about how much your newborn should sleep and why? We've got answers in our article How Much Do Newborns Sleep?
Newborn sleep schedules
0-6 Weeks: sleep survivalYour newborn baby's sleep patterns: look irregular and erratic. This is the true “newborn” stage. Like we mentioned, your baby will be spending most of their time snoozing, only waking to eat.
From the experts “Up to 6 weeks it is typical that little ones are unable to stay up beyond the 35 to 40 minute mark. This means that they are essentially awake to get cleaned up, put on a new outfit, get a full feed, get cleaned up again, get another new outfit, and then nap again! Sometimes there isn't even time for the wardrobe change! Around 6 weeks, this awake threshold is right around 45 minutes, which still goes quickly!” - Brittney Stefanic, Brittney Stefanic Sleep Consulting |
The biggest challenge: You'll feel like you're in a constant eat-snooze-poop cycle. This is usually the most exhausting stage for parents despite so many baby sleep hours, as you'll only ever get a few hours of sleep at a time. This is why we've named this the “sleep survival” stage. During this time, focus on making sure your baby gets all the rest, love, and care they need - that's what's most important. Avoid introducing sleep aids or associations if you can, but ultimately, just do what you need to do to make sure your baby AND YOU are getting enough rest.
Baby sleep schedule: 0-6 weeks
Your day should start around... | 7 AM |
Total hrs of sleep (in a 24-hr period) | 15 to 18 hours |
Naps | 3 to 5 naps, each 15 minutes to 3 hours long |
Time awake between sleeps | 30 minutes to 1 hour |
Longest stretch of nighttime sleep | 2 to 4 hours |
Bedtime should be around. .. | 9:30 to 11 PM |
When to feed: Whenever baby needs it - which will be often! Their tiny stomachs can only hold so much, so expect to feed any time they wake up!
From the experts “During this phase of adjusting to life with new baby, it is most important to ensure that their feed and sleep needs are being met. The only "sleep rule" for this young age, is to ensure that baby is sleeping in a safe sleep environment without added items in their crib or bassinet, and laid flat on their back. If ever in question, remember the ABCs of safe sleep: Alone, on their Backs in an empty Crib or bassinet!" - Brittney Stefanic, Brittney Stefanic Sleep Consulting |
Zen tip: Take time to help your newborn clear up any day/night confusion. At this age, it’s too early to have a super structured sleep schedule. While you can start implementing a simple bedtime routine, your baby is just going to sleep whenever they feel like it. Instead, teaching them the difference between day and night (that’s right - all babies need to LEARN the difference!) by keeping days bright and full of activity and nights dark, calm, and quiet, you’ll help them make an association that will help them sleep better as they grow.
From the experts “One of the best ways to clear up the day/night confusion common during weeks 0 to 12, or the 4th trimester, is to expose baby to natural light during the daytime and keep them in a dark room during the night to allow their circadian rhythm and hormone (melatonin and cortisol to name a few) levels to start to adjust to life outside the womb. I always recommend to my prenatal and newborn clients that feeding their new baby the first feed of the day occurs in a room with as much natural light as possible, rather than in a dark bedroom or nursery. This tiny trick can make a big difference in expediting how our little bundles adjust to the day and night needs.” - Brittney Stefanic, Brittney Stefanic Sleep Consulting |
Your newborn's sleep pattern: is starting to emerge into a true pattern! She's probably able to stay awake a little longer between sleeps, and you're getting an idea of the times she starts to get sleepy. Still, your baby probably won't be awake for more than a couple hours at a time.
From the experts “Even at 3 months old, the total time that babies are able remain awake without becoming overstimulated or overtired is only 1.5 hours. Remember this is time spent awake from the end of one nap to the start of the next, and it should include a full feed! Though this is a big jump from the quick 45 minutes at 6 weeks old, it still can speed by for a lot of parents, especially if they are trying to fit in running errands or taking care of things around the house. In these cases, it can be helpful to set an alarm or timer when baby gets up from their nap to help remind parents when it is time to start the next one!” - Brittney Stefanic, Brittney Stefanic Sleep Consulting |
The Biggest Challenge: You are EXHAUSTED from those first 6 weeks of constant ups and downs. You're ready to get your baby snoozing for longer stretches - especially at night! But it's not easy, and it won't happen overnight. During the “sleep survival” stage, you may have introduced some habits that aren't sustainable in the long run, like feeding or rocking to sleep. Starting to introduce good sleep habits at this point will help lay the foundation for healthy sleep patterns.
From the experts “Nighttime sleep can consolidate early, especially if newborns learn the skill of connecting sleep cycles without being fed to sleep from an early age. I have worked with many families that approach a solid 6 hour stretch of sleep after bedtime by 6 weeks old.” - Brittney Stefanic, Brittney Stefanic Sleep Consulting |
Your day should start around... | 6 to 6:30 AM |
Total hrs of sleep (in a 24-hr period) | 14 to 16 hours |
Naps | 3 to 4 naps, each 30 minutes to 3 hours long |
Time awake between sleeps | 45 minutes to 2 hours |
Longest stretch of nighttime sleep | 3 to 6 hours |
Bedtime should be around. .. | 8 to 10 PM |
When to Feed: Your baby's stomach is a little bigger now, so they'll stay full for longer, but babies at this age still typically need to be fed every few hours - including throughout the night.
Zen tip: Here's when you can start implementing a baby bedtime routine. You've probably already picked up on the things that seem to soothe your baby. Stories? Baths? Swaddling? Try some different calming activities out and develop a nighttime routine that helps relax your baby and prepare them for sleep. Having a consistent routine is SO important for healthy sleep.
Overstimulation in the evening can make it difficult for your baby to settle to sleep. Try bathing, cuddling, singing, playing quiet music or reading, with a clearly defined end point when you leave the room. Begin these activities before your baby is overtired in a quiet, softly lit room. - Mayo Clinic
The Zen Swaddle makes a great addition to any bedtime routine. It's gently weighted center and sides help soothe babies more than a traditional swaddle blanket. The weight helps to mimic your touch, so they can feel your loving embrace, even once you put them down to sleep. Additionally, the Zen Swaddle is effective in combating Moro Reflex, which is prevalent in most babies until 5 to 6 months old.
Sweeter Sleep Story “We love our Zen Swaddle! Emma Grace sleeps like a "baby" in her sweet pink swaddle. The weighted center works just like a hand gently resting on her chest. As soon as we finished swaddling her, she was ready to sleep. It works!" - Susan R., 3/19/2018 It's never too soon to start implementing healthy sleep habits. The Zen Swaddle is a great addition to a bedtime routine and, when used consistently like with Emma Grace, will become your baby's cue to sleep. |
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Additionally, take note of your baby’s sleepiness cues. You don’t want to let your baby get overtired. Knowing and noticing their sleepiness cues will help you put them to bed while they’re drowsy and awake (another tip for good sleep!) and avoid an overtired baby.
4-6 Months: establishing healthy sleep habits
Your newborn’s sleep patterns: might appear to be changing. The 4 to 6 month mark is a time of transition for your baby - especially when it comes to their sleep! These transitions cause sleep to look very different depending on the baby. Some babies might be down to just 2 naps per day, others will still be fighting to get their baby to sleep during naptime (read our Naptime Guide for tips). Some babies will be experiencing a sleep regression due to changes in their sleep cycle (read more about the 4 month sleep regression) while others could potentially be sleeping through the night.
Regardless of what your baby's sleep looks like from 4-6 months, know that a full night's sleep is finally within your reach! In When Do Babies Sleep Through the Night, we explain when you can expect your baby to start staying asleep right through the night based on certain developmental milestones, most of which are passed around 4-6 months of age.
The Biggest Challenge: Transitions will be your biggest challenge during this time. Whether it's a visible transition, like transitioning out of swaddling or moving from the bassinet to the crib, or a transition you might not be able to see, like the changes to their sleep cycle, know that these transitions are temporary, therefore, so are the associated challenges. Luckily, we have many resources that can guide you through these transitions:
Learn When to Stop Swaddling and about our 4-Step Swaddle Transition Plan
Learn 10 Tips to Survive the 4 Month Sleep Regression
Some parents also seek out a sleep coach or start sleep training around this age. If you'd like to learn more about sleep training and what it is, check out our Sleep Training Guide.
Baby sleep schedule: 4 to 6-month-old sleep scheduleYour day should start around... | 7 to 8 AM |
Total hrs of sleep (in a 24-hr period) | 12 to 15 hours |
Naps | Usually 3 naps, each 1 to 3 hours long |
Time awake between sleeps | 1. 5 to 2.5 hours |
Longest stretch of nighttime sleep | 4 to 8 hours |
Bedtime should be around... | 8:30 to 9:30 PM |
When to Feed:
Your babies feedings are probably consolidated by now, but that still means you're feeding 5 to 6 times throughout the day. Many babies also still have at least one nighttime feed at this age - but it might not be necessary. Check with your paediatrician to make sure it's safe to start weaning the nighttime feed(s) and then follow our Zen Tip to break the association.
Zen Tip:
Now is the time to start breaking sleep associations. A sleep association could be anything that aids your baby in falling asleep. Some sleep associations, such as swaddling or white noise, are positive. Others, like rocking or nursing to sleep, are negative because they aren't sustainable. All babies need to learn to self-soothe at some point, and slowly breaking negative sleep associations is the first step. Once they no longer rely on any outside help to fall asleep, they'll be able to learn to fall asleep independently. If you're feeding your baby to sleep, start weaning from feedings by shortening them. If you're rocking her to sleep, rock her for shorter periods of time before putting her down.
The Zen Sack™ can be especially helpful in breaking sleep associations and overcoming transitions. The Zen Sack's gently weighted center offers a similar comfort and pressure to swaddling, making it the ideal swaddle transition product. Additionally, the weighted center mimics your touch, which can help babies relax and begin learning to self-soothe.
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Your baby’s sleep pattern: is completely unique! During this time, there's one thing we can't stress enough: EVERY BABY IS DIFFERENT! Some babies progress faster than others - so while your baby might still only sleep 4 hour stretches at night, your friend's baby might have been sleeping through the night for a month now.
If you are just beginning to implement a consistent bedtime routine, learning your baby's sleepiness cues, and starting to break sleep associations, then it's going to take your baby a little longer to reach the sleeping through the night milestone - but that's okay! You should still see a distinct sleeping pattern at this age, and you can use that to start implementing all the Zen Tips you might have missed until now (look back at the other ages' sleep schedules to review them).
The Biggest Challenge: Sleeping Through the Night. Some parents might have gotten lucky and their baby is already sleeping through the night at this point! Other parents are still patiently waiting. If you're part of the second group, don't stress. Many babies don't sleep through the night until after 6 months old. First, review our article When Do Babies Sleep Through the Night to make sure your baby has passed the developmental milestones necessary to start sleeping through the night.
If they have, wonderful! Now you can move on to our 8 Solutions To Get Your Baby to Sleep Through the Night to help overcome this challenge. Also know that according to the National Sleep Foundation, 70-80% of babies are sleeping through the night by 9 months old - so chances are a good night's sleep is just around the corner!
Baby sleep schedule: 6-10 months
Your day should start around... | 7 AM |
Total hrs of sleep (in a 24-hr period) | 11 to 15 hours |
Naps | 2 or 3 naps, each 1 to 3 hours long |
Time awake between sleep | 2 or 3 hours |
Longest stretch of nighttime sleep | 5 to 10 hours |
Bedtime should be around. .. | 8 to 9:30 PM |
When to Feed: Some pediatricians recommend adding in solid foods at 6+ months old. You'll still be breast or bottle feeding up to 5 times per day, but also supplementing with solid foods. To learn more about what solid food servings should look like, consult your pediatrician.
Zen tip: Now that you’ve started breaking sleep associations, you’ll need to help teach your baby to self soothe. Here’s what you can do: Remember those sleepiness cues? Use those to make sure you are putting your baby to sleep drowsy, but awake. Putting her down while she’s still awake will help her practice falling asleep on her own. If you are still trying to wean night time feedings, give a dream feed a try, or keep cutting back on feeding time.
You can also use the Zen Sack to teach your baby to self soothe. Start by putting them down drowsy but awake in their Zen Sack. Then gently pat or rub the weighted center of the Zen Sack with your hand to help them make the association between the weight and your touch. Let them drift off to sleep, and if they wake up and cry out for you, just pat the weighted center again to soothe them. Try to avoid picking them up, as that can sometimes just re-stimulate them. The gentle pressure from the weighted center helps calm babies and they can use it to soothe themselves back to sleep without your help. You may even notice that your baby starts patting the weighted center themself to soothe back to sleep!
Learn more about how to teach self-soothing with the Zen Sack here.
Some parents decide to try sleep training around this age. To learn more, check out our Sleep Training Guide.
Sweeter Sleep Story “My baby sleeps really well when she has her Zen Sack on. She likes to stroke the front of the sack while she falls asleep. I really like that it gives her the reassurance of a light when on her chest when I move her from lap to crib, which we all know is the most crucial part of getting the baby to sleep!" - Velda M., 3/14/2018 |
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10-12 Months: avoiding sleep setbacks
Your baby’s sleep patterns: look a bit more like an adults - except for the naps ;) Most likely, your baby is starting to sleep through the night, taking a couple naps a day and is spending much more of their time playing and exploring instead of sleeping!
The Biggest Challenge: At this stage, your biggest challenge will be any potential setbacks. Sleep regressions commonly occur at 8, 9, or 10 months old, and some babies even experience sleep regressions at 12 months old (when they’re getting ready to drop the 2nd nap). Different milestones, changes to routine or environment, and separation anxiety are some of the causes of sleep regressions or setbacks at this age. Read more about each type of sleep regression in Surviving Sleep Regressions.
Baby sleep schedule: 10-12 months
Your day should start around... | 6 to 7:30 AM |
Total hrs of sleep (in a 24-hr period) | 11 to 14 hours |
Naps | 1 or 2 naps, each 1 to 2 hours long |
Time awake between sleeps | 2.5 to 3.5+ hours |
Longest stretch of nighttime sleep | 7 to 12 hours |
Bedtime should be around. .. | 8 to 9 PM |
When to Feed: Usually you’ll still nurse or bottle feed 3 to 4 times per day, and supplement with solid foods. You may notice an increase in appetite around 10 months old due to the increase in your baby’s activity levels. This might require extra snacks throughout the day. Most babies are able to sleep through the night without a feeding at this age.
Zen tip: If your baby does experience a sleep setback during this time, it can be especially frustrating, not to mention, discouraging. Just when you thought you had it all figured out, they suddenly stop sleeping through the night or they hate naps all of a sudden.
From the experts “Responding with consistency and holding your baby to their personal best is a great way to overcome sleep setbacks as quickly as possible. It is important to minimize the confusion that our children experience by staying consistent in the messages we send them, in sleep and beyond!” - Brittney Stefanic, Brittney Stefanic Sleep Consulting |
For help with naptime, read How to Get My Baby to Nap.
For help with sleep regressions, read Surviving Sleep Regressions.
For additional sleep tips, read 7 Tips and Tricks on How to Get My Baby to Sleep.
For information on sleep training, read our Sleep Training Guide.
Baby sleep safety
No matter what age or stage your baby is at, it’s important to make sure their sleeping safely. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), your baby should always be placed on their back to sleep and the sleep surface should be firm and clear of all loose objects, including bedding, blankets, toys, stuffed animals, etc.
To learn more about baby sleep safety, especially when your baby starts to roll over, read Safe Sleep: Baby Sleeping on Side or Stomach.
To learn more about the AAP’s guidelines, visit How to Keep Your Sleeping Baby Safe: AAP Policy Explained.
Sleeping through the night
While we walked you through the baby sleep schedules above, we explained that sleeping through the night happens around 6 months or older for most babies. Most babies will start sleeping longer stretches around the 6 week mark, but for some babies, the 4 to 6 week mark is the onset of colic or disruptive sleep due to other reasons. But it won’t last forever- I promise. Stay consistent with the feeding and sleep schedule, adapt to your baby’s changes and most importantly institute that consistent bedtime routine of bathing, reading, feeding, rocking. Before you know it, your baby will be sleeping through the night.
At 3-4 months old, your baby will still wake up once or twice to be fed, but the sleep stretches in-between will increase to 4-6 hours. You’ll see their number of naps reduce during the day, but again, the stretches of sleep will be longer. Remember that trying to implement a later bedtime for your baby in the hopes that they will sleep later will not work. Your baby needs to be put down before they are overtired and will wake on their own schedule – whether that’s 4 a.m. or 7 a.m. Refer back to our newborn sleep schedules for a suggested bedtime, or check out our Age-by-Age Bedtime Chart.
In fact, don’t be surprised if around 12 to 15 weeks, you find yourself crawling out of bed at all hours of the night to go check on your little one, who (to your surprise) is sleeping soundly! This is an adjustment for you just as much as your baby. Once you get used to waking up to calm or feed your baby every few hours, it can feel really odd not to once it stops - sometimes even alarming.
From the founder "Once I finally got our first son sleeping for those longer stretches, I still found myself waking up to go check on him and make sure he was okay. I even called our pediatrician to make sure nothing was wrong! She congratulated and assured me that it meant ‘He is getting good nutrition during daytime. Good job mom! Go get some sleep!’” - Manasi Gangan, Founder & President, Nested Bean |
Read When Do Babies Sleep Through the night to find out when you can expect your baby to sleep through the night based on the milestones he or she has reached.
Read 8 Solutions to Get Your Baby to Sleep Through the Night for additional tips on getting your baby to finally sleep all the way through the night and tips for helping baby sleep alone to help your baby become an independent sleeper.
Ultimately, these baby sleep schedules are just suggestions. Every baby is different. We can’t stress that enough. So, don’t compare your baby’s sleeping habits to another baby’s because they WILL be different. Like we said, some babies start sleeping for longer stretches right at six weeks (even earlier in some cases!) while other babies will take much longer to reach this milestone.
From the founder "Our first son slept through the night by 12 weeks while our second son was such a poor sleeper that he inspired me to create the Zen Swaddle. Every baby is completely different!" - Manasi Gangan, Founder & President, Nested Bean |
Ultimately, YOU know what’s best for your baby, and YOU know when there’s something wrong. Don’t be stressing out when at 7 weeks your baby is still sleeping for 3 or 4 hours at a time while your friend’s baby is already sleeping through the night. If your instincts are telling you something’s up, call your pediatrician. But otherwise, just keep implementing those healthy sleep habits, sticking to your routine, and using your Zen Swaddle!
Other Sleep ResourcesHealthychildren.Org: How to Keep Your Sleeping Baby Safe?
National Library of Medicine: Newborn Circadian Rhythm
Journals. plos.org: Development of sleep states in the first weeks
National Library of Medicine: Help me make it through the night
Healthychildren.Org: Preemie Sleep Patterns
Common questions from new parents
What is a normal sleep pattern for a newborn?The best newborn sleep schedule is one that works well for your baby's natural sleeping pattern. Generally, newborns sleep for around 8 hours during the day and then a further 8 hours during the night. Their sleep will be broken up into smaller 'chunks' depending on their hunger levels.
How do you get a newborn sleep schedule?The best way to determine a good sleep schedule for your baby is to work around their natural waking and sleeping patterns. You can then work other things, such as feeding and changing, around their sleeping patterns also until you have an established schedule.
Most newborns will sleep in short bursts of around 2-3 hours through both the day and the night. They will wake up to feed and to have a diaper change. Some newborns may be able to get more hours of sleep in a row and others may sleep even less!
How can I get my baby to sleep longer?It is perfectly normal for newborns to only sleep for short periods of time however, if you are struggling with their current routine, there are a few methods that may help them to sleep for longer. Keep in mind that all babies are different so these methods may not work for every child. If your newborn is struggling to sleep for longer periods of time you could try:
- Blackout curtains
- Tools to block out noise
- Temperature adjustments
- Sleeping audio
- Teaching your baby to self-soothe
- Dream feeding
Newborn sleep
Children need sleep to be healthy, grow and develop.
The sleep of a small child is different from that of an adult.
An infant can sleep 16-20 hours a day - several dreams of 2-3 hours.
The baby wakes up for feeding, diaper change, is a little awake and it's time for him to sleep again. Your baby may need help getting back to sleep, and that's okay.
The complete sleep cycle of a newborn is about half that of an adult. Short periods of sleep ensure that the child does not remain hungry and that he is regularly supervised.
Babies, especially newborns, spend about half of their sleep in REM (rapid eye movement) sleep. This is the active phase of sleep, the child can move, breathing can be irregular, slow down and become more frequent.
In deep sleep (slow eye movements), the child does not move, his breathing is deep and regular.
The adult sleep cycle lasts about 90-100 minutes. The sleep cycle of a newborn baby is much shorter, only 40-50 minutes. This means that the baby can toss and turn more often, make sounds, cry without even waking up.
From the age of three months, the baby's night sleep gradually becomes longer, the breaks in daytime wakefulness also lengthen.
For healthy sleep, a child needs a personal crib, a well-ventilated room, a calm atmosphere, subdued lights during bedtime.
If your child is restless, you can try using white noise devices. They produce sound that masks outside sounds and can induce sleep regardless of ambient noise. White noise is able to block everyday noise, such as conversations.
Babies can fall asleep faster with background white noise. It can be the sounds of the forest, rain or the sound of the sea.
Some white noise devices have a “heartbeat” setting that mimics a mother's heartbeat and can soothe newborns.
But if you use white noise all the time, the baby can get used to it and it will be difficult for him to fall asleep if he finds himself in a situation where he needs to sleep, and there is no way to turn on white noise. For example, on vacation, visiting, with my grandmother.
Children should sleep safely.
All babies under 1 year of age are at risk for sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS), especially before 6 months of age. This happens when the baby is sleeping and is not associated with any illness, vomiting or choking.
There are risk factors:
the baby was born prematurely,
during pregnancy the mother consumed alcohol, smoked,
exposure to cigarette smoke after birth,
overheating during sleep.
Until the child is 6 months old, ideally a year old, he should sleep in the room with his parents.
In the same room, but not in the same bed. Co-sleeping increases the risk of accidents.
Take your baby to your bed only to feed or soothe, then immediately transfer to a crib. If there is a possibility that you may fall asleep while feeding, make sure there are no pillows, blankets, or any other items around that could cover the baby's face and cause choking. As soon as you wake up, immediately transfer the baby to his crib. Or ask one of the family members to check if you fell asleep with the baby in your arms.
The safest way to sleep is on your back. Children who sleep on their backs are much less likely to die from SIDS than children who sleep on their stomach or side. From a position on the side, it is easier for the child to roll over on his stomach. It is unlikely that he will be able to roll over on his own.
The crib must have a firm sleeping surface, a firm mattress that does not sag when the child is lying on it, and the sheets are well made. There should not be any pillows, soft toys, bedspreads around, where the child can bury his face. Keep all foreign objects out of the sleeping area.
It is better to use a sleeping bag instead of a blanket.
Do not leave the baby to sleep on nursing pillows, he may roll over on his side or stomach and bury his head in the fabric.
Keep an eye on your baby even if he sleeps in his own crib.
Put your baby to bed at the first sign of fatigue, before fatigue sets in. Keeping a regular daytime and nighttime sleep schedule will make it easier for your baby to fall asleep.
Children's Clinical Medical Center of Chita
Sadly, pediatricians are increasingly stating the fact that modern children do not get enough sleep. And the lack of sleep in a child is much more dangerous than the lack of sleep in an adult. Children who sleep significantly less than normal grow more slowly and develop worse than their peers. This is easily explained.
First, growth hormones are produced during sleep.
Secondly, a good sound sleep contributes to a better memorization of previously received information.
Thirdly, general weakness due to lack of sleep makes it difficult to fully assimilate information.
In addition, in children with little sleep, the immune system is weakened and the likelihood of developing diseases of the cardiovascular system increases. Sleep-deprived children become nervous, absent-minded, fussy. This applies to all children, regardless of their age: both babies and teenagers should sleep equally well.
Parents are obligated to provide their child with adequate and healthy sleep.
For children, as for adults, the normal amount of sleep is individual. Some kids sleep more, some less. The figures given by doctors are an average. In general, they should strive for. These figures reflect the total amount of sleep per day, that is, taking into account both night sleep and daytime sleep.
- Newborn baby sleeps an average of 18-22 hours a day.
- Baby from 1 to 3 months sleeps 18-20 hours.
- A 3-4 month old baby can sleep 17-18 hours.
- A 5-6 month old baby should sleep at least 16 hours.
- Baby 7 to 12 months old sleeps 14 to 16 hours a day.
- A child from 1 to 1.5 years old should sleep at least 10-11 hours at night and 3-4 hours during the day. In general, at least 14 hours a day.
- A child from one and a half to 2 years old must sleep at least 10-11 hours at night and 2-3 hours during the day. In general, at least 13 hours a day.
- Child 2 to 3 years old should sleep at least 10-11 hours at night and 2-2.5 hours during the day. In general, at least 12.5 hours a day.
- Children 3-4 years old should sleep at least 10 hours at night and 2 hours during the day. In general, at least 12 hours a day.
- Children 5 to 7 years old should sleep at least 9-10 hours at night and 1.5-2 hours during the day. In general, at least 10.5-11 hours a day.
- Primary school students may not sleep during the day. At night, they should sleep at least 9 hours, preferably 10 hours.
- Adolescent needs at least 9 hours of sleep per night.
- High school students should sleep an average of 8 hours a night.
In order for the child to get enough sleep, it is necessary to follow the regimen and put him to bed at the same time. This is especially true for night sleep. Make it a rule to put the child to bed, for example, at 21 o'clock. And never deviate from this rule. Let there be guests in the house, let the child become interested in the game, let the parents have things to do - everything should be postponed for the sake of the child's sleep. If he gets used to going to bed at the same time, nothing will prevent him from relaxing in time and wanting to sleep. No game will seem more attractive to him than a fresh warm bed and a cozy pillow.
2. Preparation for sleep, relaxation, rituals.
In order for the child to fall asleep easily and quickly, already an hour or two before bedtime, he must be in a calm atmosphere. Noisy games, difficult puzzles, intellectual tasks, homework preparation, computer games, watching noisy long movies and cartoons, listening to loud music, etc. - all this should end an hour or two before going to bed. The kid at this time can calmly play with toys or listen to a fairy tale read by his mother. An older child can read by himself, chat with his parents, watch a calm movie. Yes, and not so much time will be left for quiet leisure, because direct preparation for sleep will require a lot of time. It is necessary to take a shower, brush your teeth, straighten the bed, change into pajamas, drink some water, etc. The same actions performed day after day before going to bed become a kind of ritual, the performance of which also helps the child tune in to sleep. And this, in turn, contributes to faster and deeper falling asleep and, as a result, better rest. If, for example, a few sips of water before bedtime suddenly become a habit, do not try to wean your child from it. Let this be your ritual helper. If a child is used to parents reading a fairy tale to him, then he needs to read, regardless of employment.
3. Lightness in the stomach.
The last meal should be 2 hours before bedtime (this does not apply to infants and children who are breastfed). Shortly before bedtime, a child can drink a cup of tea with 1-2 cookies or a glass of kefir, but not with a high-calorie sandwich. Firstly, with ease in the body falls asleep more soundly. Secondly, dense high-calorie snacks before bedtime are bad for the stomach.
4. Comfortable atmosphere in the room.
The room must be well ventilated before putting the child to bed. If the room is dry, after airing it is worth turning on the humidifier and bringing the humidity level to an acceptable level. When the child goes to bed, you need to turn off the light, you can leave a dim nightlight if the baby asks for it. In no case should children be put to bed with the TV turned on or a flickering computer monitor. However, it is impossible to turn on the TV, the overhead light and the sound of the computer speakers even after the child falls asleep. Light noises and light may not wake him up, but they will make the child's sleep superficial, because of this, the body will not get proper rest. If this happens consistently, the child will show signs of sleep deprivation. That is, he seems to be sleeping as much as necessary, but still does not get enough sleep.