Why are babies so small
Low birthweight | March of Dimes
Low birthweight is when a baby is born weighing less than 5 pounds, 8 ounces.
Some low-birthweight babies are healthy, but others have serious health problems that need treatment.
Premature birth (before 37 weeks of pregnancy) and fetal growth restriction are the most common causes of low birthweight.
Being a person of color is not a cause for having a low birthweight baby. However, communities of color are disproportionately affected by racism. This affects their health and well-being and increases the risk of pregnancy complications.
Go to all your prenatal care checkups during pregnancy. Your health care provider tracks your baby’s growth and development at each visit.
Talk with your provider about what you can do to help reduce your risk for having a baby with low birthweight.
What is low birthweight?
Low birthweight is when a baby is born weighing less than 5 pounds, 8 ounces. Some babies with low birthweight are healthy, even though they’re small. But having a low weight at birth can cause serious health problems for some babies. A baby who is very small at birth may have trouble eating, gaining weight and fighting off infections. Some may have long-term health problems, too. About 1 in 12 babies (about 8 percent) in the United States is born with low birthweight.
What causes a baby to have a low birthweight?
There are two main reasons:
- Preterm birth.
- Fetal growth restriction (also called intrauterine growth restriction or small for gestational age). This means a baby doesn’t gain the weight they should before birth. Some babies may have low birthweight simply because their parents are small. Others may have low birthweight because something slowed or stopped their growth during pregnancy. Your health care provider measures your belly and uses ultrasound to help track your baby’s growth during pregnancy. Ultrasound uses sound waves and a computer screen to show a picture of your baby while you’re pregnant.
If your provider thinks your baby’s growth is being restricted, you may have ultrasounds more often (every 2 to 4 weeks) to track your baby’s growth. Your provider also may do other tests such as heart rate monitoring and tests to check for infections or birth defects. Babies who have birth defects are more likely to be born too early.
Are you at risk of having a low-birthweight baby?
Some things may make you more likely than others to have a low-birthweight baby. These are called risk factors. Having a risk factor doesn’t mean you’ll definitely have a low-birthweight baby, but it may increase your chances. Talk with your health care provider about what you can do to reduce your risk.
Medical risk factors for having a low-birthweight baby
- Preterm labor. This is labor that starts too soon, before 37 weeks of pregnancy.
- Chronic health conditions. These are health conditions that last for a long time or that happen again and again over a long period of time. Chronic health conditions need to be treated by a health care provider. Chronic health conditions that may lead to having a baby with low birthweight include high blood pressure, diabetes and heart, lung and kidney problems.
- Taking certain medicines to treat health conditions, such as high blood pressure, epilepsy and blood clots. Tell your provider about any prescription medicine you take. You may need to stop taking a medicine or switch to one that’s safer during pregnancy.
- Infections. Certain infections, especially infections of the internal reproductive organs during pregnancy, can slow a baby’s growth in the womb. These include cytomegalovirus, rubella, chickenpox, toxoplasmosis and certain sexually transmitted infections.
- Problems with the placenta. The placenta grows in the uterus and supplies the baby with food and oxygen through the umbilical cord. Some problems in the placenta can reduce the flow of oxygen and nutrients to the baby, which can limit the baby’s growth.
- Not gaining enough weight during pregnancy. Pregnant people who don’t gain enough weight during pregnancy are more likely to have a low-birthweight baby than those who gain the right amount of weight. If you have an eating disorder or have been treated for an eating disorder, tell your provider. Your provider can check on you and your baby carefully throughout pregnancy to help prevent complications and make sure you’re both healthy.
- Having a baby who was born too early or who had low birthweight in the past.
- Being pregnant with multiples (twins, triplets or more). More than half of multiple birth babies have low birthweight.
- Smoking, drinking alcohol, using street drugs and abusing prescription drugs. Pregnant people who smoke are more than 3 times as likely to have a baby who weighs too little at birth than people who don’t smoke. Smoking, drinking alcohol, using street drugs, and abusing prescription drugs during pregnancy can slow the baby’s growth in the womb and increase the risk for preterm birth and birth defects.
- Exposure to air pollution or lead
- Being a member of a group that experiences the effects of racism and health disparities.
- Domestic violence. This is when your partner hurts or abuses you. It includes physical, sexual and emotional abuse.
- Age. Being a teen (especially younger than 15) or being older than 35 makes you more likely than other parents to have a low-birthweight baby.
Rates of low birthweight in the United States
Black babies are more likely than others to weigh less than they should at birth. The rates of low birthweight among different ethnic groups are:
- About 1 in 7 Black babies (about 13 percent)
- About 1 in 12 Asian babies (about 8 percent)
- About 1 in 13 Native American or Alaska Native babies (about 8 percent)
- About 1 in 14 Latinx babies (about 7 percent)
- About 1 in 14 White babies (about 7 percent)
March of Dimes recognizes that racism and its effects are factors in the health disparities in pregnancy outcomes and babies’ health. We must work together to bring fair, just and full access to health care for all moms and babies.
Does a low birth weight cause problems for the baby?
Yes. Babies who weigh less than they should at birth are more likely than babies whose weight is normal to have health problems. Some need special care in a hospital’s newborn intensive care unit (also called NICU) to treat medical problems. These include:
- Breathing problems, such as respiratory distress syndrome (also called RDS). Babies with RDS don’t have a protein called surfactant that keeps small air sacs in a baby’s lungs from collapsing. Treatment with surfactant helps these babies breathe more easily. Babies who have RDS also may need oxygen and other breathing help to make their lungs work.
- Bleeding in the brain (also called intraventricular hemorrhage or IVH). Most brain bleeds are mild and go away on their own. More severe bleeds can cause pressure on the brain that can cause fluid to build up in the brain. This can cause brain damage. In some cases, a surgeon may insert a tube into the baby’s brain to drain the fluid.
- Patent ductus arteriosus. Patent ductus arteriosus is when an opening between 2 major blood vessels leading from the heart does not close properly. This can cause extra blood to flow to the lungs. In many babies who have patent ductus arteriosus, the opening closes on its own within a few days after birth. Some babies need medicine or surgery to close the opening.
- Necrotizing enterocolitis. This is a problem in a baby’s intestines. The intestines are long tubes that are part of the digestive system. The digestive system helps the body break down food. Necrotizing enterocolitis can be dangerous for a baby and can cause feeding problems, swelling in the belly, and other complications. Babies who have necrotizing enterocolitis are treated with antibiotics and fed through an intravenous, or IV, tube. Some babies need surgery to remove damaged parts of intestine.
- Retinopathy of prematurity. This eye disease is what happens when a baby’s retinas don’t fully develop in the weeks after birth.
- Jaundice. This is a condition that makes a baby’s eyes and skin look yellow. It’s caused when there’s too much of a substance called bilirubin in the blood.
- Infections. The immune system protects the body from infection. In a baby who is born too early, the immune system may not be fully developed and may not be able to fight off infection.
Does a low weight at birth cause problems later in life?
Babies who are born weighing too little may be more likely than others to have certain health conditions later in life, including:
- Diabetes
- Heart disease
- High blood pressure
- Intellectual and developmental disabilities
- Metabolic syndrome
- Obesity
If you’ve had a baby who weighed less than they should have at birth, talk with their health care provider about what you can do to help your baby be healthy. As your child grows, make sure they eat healthy food, stay active and go to all their health care checkups. Regular checkups can help your baby’s provider spot health conditions that may cause problems as your baby grows older. These checkups also help make sure that your child gets all the vaccinations they need to stay protected from certain harmful diseases.
If my baby has developmental delays, do they need early intervention services?
Yes. If your baby has developmental delays, it’s important to get early intervention services as soon as possible. Developmental delays are when your child doesn’t reach developmental milestones when expected. Early intervention services can help improve your child’s development. They can help children from birth through 3 years old learn important skills. Services include therapy to help a child talk, walk, learn self-help skills and interact with others.
The CDC program Learn the signs. Act early offers tools and information for parents who think their child may have developmental delays. You can find your state’s contact information for early intervention services. You don’t need a doctor’s referral or a medical diagnosis to ask for a free screening.
Last reviewed: June, 2021
Having a small baby | Pregnancy Birth and Baby
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Some babies may be smaller than others during pregnancy. However, what’s important is that your baby grows at a healthy rate in your womb, regardless of their size.
Here’s what you need to know about your pregnancy if you have been told by your doctor or midwife that your baby is small or growing slower than expected. Your doctor or midwife may refer to a slower growth as ‘small for dates’, ‘small for gestation’ or ‘fetal growth restriction’.
Why is my baby small?
Most babies who are smaller than expected are healthy. In some cases, babies are small and appropriately grown, given the size of their parents and their ethnicity.
However, up to 10% of pregnancies will be affected by ‘fetal growth restriction'. This is a more serious complication that means your pregnancy must be closely monitored. In many instances, babies with fetal growth restriction are small because the placenta hasn’t developed well enough to keep up with the baby’s growing needs for nutrients and oxygen, although a cause may not always be found.
Risk factors for having a baby with fetal growth restriction include:
- previously having a small baby, pre-eclampsia or a stillbirth
- an infection that passes across the placenta, such as cytomegalovirus (CMV)
- heavy bleeding early in pregnancy
- having a chronic health condition, such as high blood pressure, kidney disease or diabetes
- severe anaemia or undernutrition
- smoking, drinking alcohol or using illegal drugs
- a genetic or chromosomal condition in the baby
- having a multiple pregnancy (twins, triplets or more)
How is a baby's size measured?
During routine antenatal check-ups, your doctor or midwife will use a tape measure to estimate the growth and size of your baby by measuring your abdomen, from your pubic bone to the top of your uterus (or fundus). This is known as the ‘symphyseal fundal height measurement’ (SFH) and gives some indication about a baby’s growth during pregnancy.
If you have risk factors for fetal growth restriction, or if your baby has been diagnosed with this, your baby’s growth may be monitored more closely by ultrasound, instead of using a tape measure.
Every pregnancy is unique. Your doctor or midwife will track your baby’s growth at each check-up. They will talk with you about next steps if there are signs that your baby’s growth has slowed.
Should I be concerned if my baby is small?
Most small babies will be healthy. However, if your baby has fetal growth restriction, this increases the risk of complications and, sadly, also the risk of stillbirth. Your doctor and midwife will monitor you and your baby’s health closely to reduce the risk of this happening.
You can monitor your baby’s health by attending your scheduled antenatal visits and keeping a close eye on your baby’s movements. If you are concerned about your baby’s movements at any stage, call your doctor or midwife immediately.
Your doctor or midwife may also talk to you about the best time for your baby to be born. Sometimes it may be necessary for your baby to be born early, before your due date. Every situation will be different; your doctor or midwife will give you personalised advice each step of the way.
Generally a baby with fetal growth restriction can still be born via normal vaginal delivery, but you and your baby may need extra care both during labour and after the birth. This means it’s best to give birth where you can access specialist medical services.
Talk to your doctor or midwife about the best place for you to give birth.
Can I do anything to reduce the risk of having a small baby?
Often there is nothing you can do to prevent a baby being small. But looking after yourself during pregnancy is important to help reduce the risk of having a baby with fetal growth restriction. You should:
- quit smoking (if you currently smoke)
- eat a balanced, healthy diet
- keep a healthy weight during pregnancy
- avoid alcohol and illegal drugs
What to expect if your baby is born with low birth weight?
If your baby weighs less than 2.5kg at birth, their head may appear to be a lot bigger than the rest of their body. They may look thin with little body fat.
Babies of low birth weight or those who are born prematurely, may need to be admitted to the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) or special care nursery (SCN).
Some of the challenges faced by babies with low birth weight can include:
- breathing or heart problems
- low oxygen levels at birth
- difficulty maintaining body temperature
- difficulty feeding and gaining weight
- infection
- bleeding on the brain (called ‘intraventricular haemorrhage’)
- problems with their eyes and vision
- problems with their intestines
These conditions are more likely to occur in premature babies and those with fetal growth restriction.
If there are no other complications, low birth weight babies usually 'catch up' in their physical growth. In later life, however, people who were born smaller than average are more likely to develop diabetes, obesity, heart problems and high blood pressure.
Questions you might want to ask your doctor
Here are some questions you might want to ask your midwife or doctor:
- What does having a small baby mean for me and the health of my baby?
- Will I need more regular check-ups during pregnancy? If so, what does this include?
- How will I know if my baby is well?
- Will having a small baby affect how and where I can give birth?
- Does having a small baby affect my next pregnancy?
Who can I talk to for advice and support?
Always talk to your doctor or midwife first if you have any concerns about your pregnancy, your own health or the health of your baby.
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Sources:
Stillbirth Centre of Research Excellence (Your baby's growth matters), Department of Health (Pregnancy care 2020 edition), The Royal Australian and New Zealand College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists (Perinatal post-mortem examination)Learn more here about the development and quality assurance of healthdirect content.
Last reviewed: April 2022
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Alison Gopnik on the Functions of Childhood - T&P
Psychologist, UC Berkeley professor and author Alison Gopnik explains what young children and scientists have in common, how a child's mind works, and why the New Caledonian raven is the most intelligent bird in the world.
What goes on in a child's head? If you had asked this question 30 years ago, most people, including psychologists, would have answered that the child's mind is irrational, illogical, that the child is self-centered, cannot see things through another person's eyes, or understand cause and effect relationships. Over the past 20 years, developmental psychology has completely turned this picture upside down.
So, in a sense, we think that this child's thoughts are like those of great scientists. One of the topics that a child may think about is something like this: “What is going on in the head of another child?”. After all, one of the most difficult tasks for all of us is to understand what other people think and feel. And perhaps the most difficult task is to realize that the feelings and thoughts of other people can differ to some extent from our own. Anyone who is interested in politics can attest to how difficult it can be for other people to understand. We wanted to know if babies and young children can understand this deep thought about other people. And the question is: how to ask them about it? Babies don't talk, and if you ask a three-year-old to tell you what he's thinking, you get a wonderful stream of consciousness about ponies and birthdays and all that. So how do we ask this question?
Broccoli has become a lifesaver for us. We gave the little children two plates of food: one with raw broccoli, the other with delicious fish-shaped cookies. All the kids, even at Berkeley, love cookies and don't like raw broccoli. So, one of my students, Betty Rapaccioli, tasted the food from each plate, and then showed whether she liked this food or not. Half the time, she acted like she liked the cookies and didn't like the broccoli, just like a child or any other normal person would have done in her place. But the other half of the time she tasted broccoli and said, "Mmm, broccoli, I ate broccoli, mmm." And then she took some cookies and said: "Oh, fu, cookies, I ate cookies, fu." That is, she behaved directly opposite to the expectations of the child.
Instead of looking at children as subadults, we should think of them as another stage in the development of the same species—something like caterpillars and butterflies.
We performed this test on children aged 1 year and 3 months to 1.5 years. And then she held out her hand and asked: "Give me something." So, the question is: what did the children give her? What they liked, or what she liked? Curiously, 18-month-olds, barely able to walk or talk, gave her cookies if she liked cookies and broccoli if she liked broccoli. On the other hand, children of 1 year and 3 months watched for a long time that she shows how much she likes broccoli, but could not understand it. And after they looked at it for a long time, they gave her the cookie because they thought everyone liked it.
Two wonderful thoughts follow from this. First, one and a half year old children already have a deep understanding that people do not always like the same things. Moreover, they feel that they must help the person and give him what he wants. And even more remarkable is that children of 1 year and 3 months do not know this. Therefore, it can be assumed that one and a half year old children understood this deep, important idea about human nature in just three months. Thus, children know and learn more than we ever thought. And this is one of hundreds of similar studies conducted over the past 20 years.
Why do children learn so much, and how is it possible to learn so much in such a short time? After all, if you look at the child superficially, then he seems to be a rather useless creature. In many cases, this is true: because we have to invest a lot of time and effort in them - just so that they live. But if we turn to evolution for an answer to the question of why we spend so much time caring for useless children, it turns out that she has an answer. There is a relationship between how long an animal's childhood lasts for a particular species, and the size of its brain in relation to its body, how smart the animal is and how well it can adapt.
Crows, rooks, and other families of corvids are incredibly intelligent birds. In a sense, they are as smart as chimpanzees. The raven even appeared on the cover of Science magazine because he learned how to use a tool to get food. And chickens, like ducks, geese and turkeys, are usually stupid as corks. They are very good at pecking food - and nothing more. At some point, it was discovered that the chicks of the New Caledonian raven remain chicks for a very long time. Their mothers feed them by putting worms in their open beaks for two years, which is quite a long period by bird standards. While chickens grow up in a couple of months. It turns out that childhood is the answer to the question why a raven ends up on the cover of a scientific journal, and a chicken ends up in soup.
Books by Alison Gopnik
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The Philosophical Baby
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The Scientist in the Crib
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Causal Learning
The duration of childhood is certainly something to do with knowledge and learning. But how would we explain it? Some animals, such as chickens, are perfect for a single action. That is, they do an excellent job of pecking grain in a certain environment. Others, like crows, do not excel in anything, but they learn extremely well the laws of other different situations. Of course, we humans have evolved far from crows. Our brain in relation to our body is much larger than that of other animals. We are smarter, we adapt better, we can learn more, we survive in different situations, our species has spread throughout the globe, and we have even gone beyond it - into space. And our children depend on us much longer than the young of other animal species.
There is a theory that this early learning policy is an extremely powerful strategy for getting ahead in our world. But she has one big drawback, which is that until you learn everything, you are helpless. You wouldn't want to be in a situation where a mastodon is aiming at you, and you are arguing: "Should I use a slingshot or a spear?" It is better to know such things before the mastodon appears at all. And the way evolution solved this problem is the division of labor.
The fact is that we have a period of childhood, a period of protection. We don't need to know anything. All we need is to learn. And then, in adulthood, we can apply everything that we learned in childhood to the big world. If we look at the world from this point of view, then it turns out that babies and young children are like an institution for the research and development of mankind. These are protected lucky ones who have the opportunity to simply learn and come up with something new, and we are production and marketing. We take what we learned in childhood and bring it to life. On the other hand, instead of looking at children as subadults, we should think of them as another stage in the development of the same species—something like caterpillars and butterflies. Only children are beautiful butterflies fluttering through the garden and exploring it, and we are caterpillars crawling along the long, narrow path of our adult life. If this is true, if children are designed to learn—and evolution proves that's what they're designed to do—it should be assumed that they have powerful mechanisms for receiving and processing new information.
Children are traditionally underestimated, says Alison Gopnik. Philosopher John Locke called them "blank slates," the eminent turn-of-the-century psychologist William James believed they lived in a "blooming, ringing turmoil." Throughout the 20th century, scholars such as Sigmund Freud or Jean Piaget believed that the reason children are capable of such fantastic and unrealistic games is that children are unable to distinguish between an imaginary world and a real one. However, a huge number of recent studies have shown that this is not at all the case. Children have a very clear idea of how to distinguish between fantasy and reality. They are just interested in both equally.A child's brain appears to be the most powerful computer on earth. The Reverend Thomas Bayea, an 18th-century statistician and mathematician, proposed a mathematical model based on the theory of probability to describe how scientists make discoveries. First of all, scientists put forward their assumption - a hypothesis. They test it, finding evidence in its favor. The evidence forces them to change the hypothesis. Then they test the new hypothesis, and so on. Bayes showed this way mathematically. And math is the backbone of the best learning programs we have. And about 10 years ago, I suggested that children can act according to the same pattern.
I think children do these complex calculations with conditional probability, repeating them over and over again to understand how the world works. To test this hypothesis, we used a so-called "light detector". This is a box that glows and plays music when certain items are placed on it. Using this simple mechanism, our lab has done many studies showing how well children do in learning.
I will only talk about one experiment that we conducted with my student Tumar Kushner. If I showed you this detector, you would think that for it to work, you need to put a block on it. But in fact, everything is not so simple. If you wave a block over the detector, the detector will activate two out of three times. Whereas if you do the sensible thing to put a block on top of the detector, it only activates two out of six times. Thus, the less reasonable hypothesis is supported by more evidence. Waving a block is more effective than just putting it down.
Here's what we did. We set an example for four-year-olds and asked them to repeat. And, of course, four-year-olds used this knowledge to apply the right strategy and wave the block over the detector. In this regard, I have two conclusions: the first is that these children are only 4 years old, as you remember. They are just learning to count. But subconsciously they do these complex calculations that give them conditional probability data. And another very interesting thing is that through evidence, children make a hypothesis about the structure of the world, which seems incredible to us. Other tests in our lab show that children come to less obvious hypotheses better than adults who are given the same task.
What does it mean to be such a being? What is it like to be a beautiful butterfly, testing five hypotheses in two minutes? If you go back to the same psychologists and philosophers, many of them said that babies and young children are hardly, if at all, conscious. I think the exact opposite is true. I think that children and babies are much more conscious than us adults.
The attention and consciousness of an adult resembles a searchlight. If something happens that we think is relevant or significant, we turn our full attention to it. Our consciousness concentrates on one thing and highlights it especially brightly, leaving the rest in the dark. And we even know how the brain does it. So, when we pay attention to something, our prefrontal cortex, which is responsible for the execution of the processes, sends a signal that makes a small part of our brain more flexible, plastic, aimed at learning, and turns off the activity of the rest of the brain. Our attention is very focused, directed to one goal.
The attention and consciousness of an adult resembles a searchlight. Our consciousness concentrates on one thing and highlights it especially brightly, leaving the rest in the dark.
If we look at babies and young children, we see something completely different. I think the minds of babies and young children are like a beacon, not a searchlight. Babies and young children are very bad at concentrating on one thing. But they perceive a lot of information from various sources at the same time very well. And if you really look at their brain, you can see that it is filled with these neurotransmitters that turn on learning and plasticity, but the blockages are not set yet. That is, when we say that children do not know how to concentrate, we really mean that they do not know how not to concentrate. They do not know how to be distracted from many interesting things that could tell them something, it is important for them even just to look at them. This is the kind of concentration, consciousness, that we expect from butterflies that are designed for learning.
So, if we want to get a little closer to understanding how the mind of a child works, the best way, I think, is to think about times when we found ourselves in a situation that we have never been in - falling in love with someone new, falling into to a city where they have never been before. And what is happening? Our consciousness does not narrow, but expands, and those three days in Paris seem more filled with impressions than the months of ordinary life, where we walk, talk, attend faculty meetings in our city.
So what does it mean to be a child? It's like falling in love in Paris for the first time after three double espressos. This is great, but it makes you wake up crying at three in the morning. It's good to be an adult, right? I don't want to talk too much about how wonderful kids are. It's good to be an adult too. We can tie our own shoelaces and cross the street without help. And it is very reasonable of us that we put a lot of effort into teaching children to think like adults. But, if we want to be like those butterflies, be open to new experiences, knowledge, innovation, have a good imagination, be creative, maybe, at least sometimes, we adults should learn to think like children.
Why do small children cry?
Very often parents simply do not know why their child is crying. It would seem that the baby slept well, he is wearing comfortable clothes, he should not be hot or cold ... What worries him?
Or does he have a bad temper? Is he spoiled for attention? How then, maybe, it is worth simply ignoring this crying? Cries and stops...
But studies have shown that children who are approached by their parents every time they hear crying grow up more calm. And those whose crying is ignored become capricious, spoiled, constantly demands attention, which they did not receive at an early age.
Sometimes adults at all costs try to explain a child's crying by some good reason - the tummy is swelling, teeth are being cut, and the like. but there are not so many children whose intestines suffer from gases, and not all babies have teething painfully.
If everything is taken into account and analyzed, it turns out that about a third of children cry just like that, for no apparent, it would seem, reason. But there is a reason. It's just that we adults don't take it into account.
Anyone knows that if a person has experienced trauma, psychological and physical, he is experiencing. For an adult, to relieve tension, it is enough to speak out. And what about a child who does not speak yet? He can't express his emotions in any way other than crying.
In this case, crying is nothing but a way to protect the nervous system from stress! And if a child cries for no reason, then most likely he wants to get rid of stress.
Babies cry because they need to!
And what do adults do in this case, trying to calm the child? They deprive him of the opportunity to relieve stress. And stress by itself does not go anywhere. Emotions that have no way out accumulate and place a heavy burden on the body.
Babies who are not allowed to cry, distracted by toys, pictures, pacifiers, develop more slowly than those who have the opportunity to cry. Such a baby is less inquisitive, does not actively study the surrounding objects, just lies in the crib and watches what is happening with a look that does not express anything.
So, should a crying baby be soothed or not? First, you need to make sure that he is crying for no apparent reason. Of course, it is difficult to learn to understand, to feel a child.
Some pediatricians believe that crying will bring relief to the child if it receives attention and support. You need to take the baby in your arms and ... listen to how he cries.
And what does a baby get from such "passive" attention? First, your complicity. secondly, an important life lesson: if you left him alone now, he would understand that he is loved only when he is cheerful, and when he feels bad, no one needs him.