Help pregnant teens

Pregnant Teen | The American Pregnancy Association

Being a pregnant teen can be overwhelming, confusing, and scary. You are not alone; there are around 500,000 pregnant teens in the USA every year. As a pregnant teen, you might be wondering how to break the news to your boyfriend and your parents, what you will choose for your pregnancy, how this will affect you finishing school, what your friends will say about you, or about how you will be able to provide for your baby.

The good news is there are resources, services, and support just for you. The first step is to begin care for your pregnancy and to seek help. Maybe you haven’t confirmed your pregnancy yet, but have missed a period or have questions about your symptoms.

Our toll-free teen pregnancy hotline, 1-800-672-2296, and chat button below are here just for you. Our pregnancy educators are ready to help you figure out you if you’re pregnant, help you get a free and confidential pregnancy test and offer you a safe place to talk about your pregnancy options.

Let’s look at what it is like being a pregnant teen, how to determine if you are pregnant, breaking the news to your boyfriend and parents (and tips on how to talk with them), making a choice for your pregnancy, resources available to you, and much more. We’ve included links to some of our other articles for more in-depth information.

Before you psych yourself out, the first thing you need to do (if you haven’t already) is to find out if you are pregnant or not. Don’t assume you are pregnant just because you missed your period. The only way to know is to take a pregnancy test. You’ll want to wait until seven day safter you miss your period to ensure an accurate result. You can purchase a urine test at your local pharmacy or retail store, or go to a local testing center for a free one. Blood tests must be done at a clinic or by your doctor. Visit our Pregnancy Symptoms or Pregnancy Tests pages for more information. Call or chat with us and we’ll help you find a free testing center. After you have a positive pregnancy test, your next step is to make sure the pregnancy is viable (possible to carry to term) and not an ectopic pregnancy or a probable miscarriage. You can do this with an ultrasound. Many of the free testing centers also offer free ultrasounds, or your doctor can perform one. If the pregnancy is viable, then you have some decisions to make (see below).

Sharing the News as a Pregnant Teen

Once you confirm the pregnancy, telling others that you are pregnant is probably going to be very difficult. However, it is crucial to do so because it is by telling people you can find support and get access to care. You can start by making a confidential toll-free call or chat to our helpline. Our pregnancy educators have been the first person someone has told many times, so please don’t hesitate to talk to us. You may also find it helpful to speak with a confidential educator at a pregnancy center or through your school nurse or counseling office. As hard as it may be, you will need to plan on sharing the news with at least one of your parents. Because you are probably still living at home or still financially dependent on your parent(s), they will likely be the one(s) helping and supporting you in whatever decision you make for your pregnancy.

Talking to your parents

Most pregnant teens are scared to share the news with their family. We have a few suggestions on breaking the news to your parent(s):

Realize that this was probably not their plan for their teenage daughter; try not to be defensive about how you ended up in this situation. If you are humble and apologize for disobeying their rules/expectations, then you and your parents may be able to start with a cleaner slate.
Your parent(s) are undoubtedly going to ask you who the father is, and they are going to want to know if he plans to help you care for a child. If you have a relationship with the baby’s father and would like to continue it, ask him what he thinks/how he feels so that you can have an answer for your parent(s), as well as for yourself.
Most parents will consider a teen pregnancy irresponsible; so, show them that you are taking responsibility for your actions by coming up with a plan. These plans don’t have to be set in stone but make sure you have concrete ideas about prenatal care, how you will provide (jobs), if/how you plan to finish school, child care, where you will live, and the list goes on. This shows them that you are thinking ahead and behaving responsibly.
Your parents may have an idea about what choice they think you should make for your pregnancy. Remember that ultimately, it is up to you. If you’ve already made your decision, let them know. However, don’t be afraid to discuss with them as to why you’ve chosen what you did (they are going to want to hear your reasons anyway).
Your parent(s) may bring up some points that you had not thought about, so be prepared to LISTEN, too!
Don’t roll your eyes, storm off, or tune them out! They have been through at least one pregnancy before (you) and undoubtedly have some helpful information and wise insights to share with you.
Try not to set your expectations too high or too low. Not every “I’m pregnant” talk with parents is going to go well, and not all of them are going to go badly. Remember, you won’t know precisely how they’ll react until you break the news (even if you say that you’re sure of it). Some parents will be angry at first, but loosen up when it gets time for them to meet their grandson or granddaughter. Plus, they’re going to find out eventually because it’s quite challenging to hide in the second half of pregnancy. If you wait until then to tell them and get care, that can be dangerous for you and the baby.

As a first time pregnant teen, this will be the first time you have this talk with your parents. More than likely, this is their first time to talk about teen pregnancy as well.

Talking to your boyfriend

As a newly confirmed pregnant teen, you might also be wondering how to talk to your boyfriend. It’s possible you’ve already been talking to him about the possibility, or you are going to take a test with him present. If you take one on your own, here are some suggestions on how to tell him. We’ve also included thoughts on how to talk about what you (and he) wish for the pregnancy. As a pregnant teen, this is probably your first pregnancy. Remember, this is most likely his first time as well. Don’t forget to ask his opinion too – ultimately, the decision is yours, but the choice you make here could make or break your relationship. The baby does have half his DNA too!

Try to break the news as calmly as possible in person and not over a phone call or text (if you are long-distance, then a video call might be a better option). If you aren’t sure of what his reaction will be, it might be helpful to have the conversation in a public place but make it a place that both of you feel comfortable.
Many guys will face some denial about the situation initially. It might be a good idea to either bring the positive pregnancy test/results with you if you took one on your own, or to bring a new test and offer to take with him present. This way, he can see immediate proof.
He may need a few minutes to process what you’re telling him. You can take this time to explain what you are thinking or feeling about the situation, or you can give him some time to think in silence.
Don’t assume that he already knew that pregnancy was on the table – he might not have had any clue at all. Try not to hold this against him, as he might not have noticed anything different.
Try to keep calm throughout the whole conversation. He’s the one getting hit with big news at this moment, he may not be as emotionally controlled. (That doesn’t excuse any bad behavior or attitude he might have, but it may explain some of it.)
Don’t throw the blame all on him (unless intercourse was forced – in which case please talk to your parents and the police) – you both made the adult decision to have sex, and thus both of you are now facing the consequences. Try not to be defensive either, as that never helps a conversation go better.
Try to be as clear as possible when you explain what you’re thinking or feeling about the pregnancy. What choice for the pregnancy are you leaning toward? Why? Have you told your parents? When did conception likely occur? Vagueness can lead to misunderstandings and then arguments, so avoid that if possible.
Talking and decisions about the future of your relationship or the possibility of parenting together may not happen in this initial conversation. You both may be too full of emotion and shock to be able to make educated, long-term decisions at the moment. Don’t feel pressured to get all your plans finalized in this one conversation, and don’t pressure him to decide what he wants right away.
If the situation escalates and you fear for your safety or for his safety, excuse yourself and take some time to calm down or to let him settle his emotions. Don’t leave without an explanation; let him know that you’d like to continue the conversation later when you both are at a better emotional level.

You are more than likely a pregnant teen for the first time, and the same goes for him as well. If your relationship has been around for a while and you both know each other’s parents, you may want to plan a family meeting after you initially share the news with your boyfriend. Ideally, you both would have already made a decision about the pregnancy and about your relationship (how it will continue or if it will not).

Pregnancy Decisions as a Pregnant Teen

It is quite possible that you are questioning what to do with this pregnancy. Will you carry the baby to term, consider adoption, or look at termination through an abortion procedure? The first thing to remember is that it is your pregnancy – no one should pressure you into anything. Whether it is a parent, friends, your boyfriend, or some other person/group, no one should make you feel that you have to make the decision they want you to make. The options are there whether anyone tells you about them or not. You may find someone who tells you that you are a horrible person if you abort, and that is not true. You may get someone else who tells you that it is only a blob of tissue, which isn’t true either, with the heart starting to beat by day 21. There have been studies showing that a majority of women who get abortions feel that they didn’t have enough information to make an informed choice for their pregnancy. It is important to know all the resources available to you – without being aware of these, you may falsely think that there is no help for someone in your position.

Embrace Grace is a judgement-free support group organization developed to help young people with unplanned pregnancies. There’s probably one near you.

Choice 1: Parenting

You’re young, might not have a job yet or have graduated from high school, but that does not mean that you have no chance as a parent. Parenting can be very challenging but also extremely rewarding. There are many successful teen moms whose children grow up happily and normally. There are a lot of programs that can help you get on your feet and provide for a child, such as Medicaid for prenatal care, WIC for help eating healthy and for baby formula/breastfeeding assistance, food stamps to help you keep food on the table, housing assistance to bring your living expenses down, and much more. Here are a few topics on parenting that you may find helpful:

different types of parenting
how to be a single parent
things you need as you prepare for your due date

With parenting, you’ll have to speak to your boyfriend and your family about what this will look like. Will your boyfriend, help you raise the child, or will you have to pursue child support? Will you be able to stay with your parents or have to get your place? There’s a lot to think about when considering parenthood, but it is possible to sort through all these questions. Check out our Issues & Challenges article to learn more about the journey through pregnancy.

Choice 2: Adoption

There is also the option for adoption. Many teenagers feel that they cannot give a child the life they desire for them, and that is where adoption comes in. There are a lot of couples that are in a more stable time in life that are not able to parent children for one reason or another who desperately want a child. You could help make that a reality for these hopeful parents! Plus, the adoption agency or adopting family will typically cover the medical costs of your pregnancy. You have the option to keep in contact with the adoptive family, or to go through the adoption anonymously. Here are some other topics you might find useful:

adoption in the eyes of the birth parent(s)
questions to ask yourself when considering adoption
different types of adoption
financial help with adoption
And much more here.

We also encourage you to sit down with an adoption agency or professional to get a better idea of what adoption might look like for you.

Choice 3: Abortion

Abortion is the process of terminating a pregnancy. Depending on the age of the baby, there are different procedures available to you through medical or surgical abortions. Many women who choose abortion do so because they do not feel like there is any other option for their pregnancy. We encourage you to never decide out of fear, or because you feel forced to because of your situation or people around you! Before you choose, learn more about the options and resources that are available.

Remember that if you are a minor, you may need your parents to sign off on an abortion procedure. Contact a teen pregnancy center in your area to find out more about the laws in your state.

Help for a Pregnant Teen

As we noted earlier, there are approximately 500,000 new pregnant teenagers every year, meaning there is a need for specialized care. You may not know it, but there are usually school programs for pregnant teens allowing you to finish school. There are maternity homes just for teenagers to have a special place to get away and receive care, especially if there are any problems at home.

Abortion used to be the number one option selected by teenagers, but more and more young women are discovering that they can overcome the odds and succeed, either as a parent or through adoption. It is not easy, but there is help, resources, and support specifically for pregnant teens. You have to start somewhere to find what is available to you! That is why we suggest visiting a pregnancy center, talking to your parents, or calling our helpline so that you have an idea of a good next step toward choosing your pregnancy, or so that you can get information about helpful resources.

Prevention and Statistics

Though teen pregnancy rates in the United States have steadily dropped since 1991 and are now at record lows (reaching a new record low each year since 2009), they are still higher than the rates in many other developed countries. The latest data from the CDC revealed an average of 22.3 births per 1000 females (age 15-19) in 2015. It is important to remember that this number does not include aborted babies and pregnancy losses, and thus, the pregnancy rate (vs. birth rate) is higher than 22.3/1000. Around 30% of teen pregnancies end in abortion. Some people have postulated that increased availability of abortions is to blame for fewer births from teen pregnancies, but the abortion rates have stayed relatively the same. Many researchers believe that access to birth control/contraception is the reason for this drop in teen pregnancies. Don’t want to be a pregnant teen? Whether that means condoms, education about ovulation/fertility, or hormonal birth control, no method is 100% effective at preventing pregnancy and/or preventing the spread of sexually transmitted infections (STIs). The only entirely effective way to avoid pregnancy and diseases is to abstain from sexual intercourse and contact (abstinence). For more information on birth control and natural family planning, please check out the topics below:

Abstinence
Natural family planning (NFP)/fertility awareness
Male condoms and female condoms
Withdrawal/”pull-out method”
Spermicide
Cervical cap and diaphragm
Hormonal birth control:
- pills
- shot/injection
- patch
- ring
- implant
- intrauterine device (IUD)
Non-hormonal copper IUD
Emergency contraceptives/”morning after” pill

Hormonal birth control (including the morning after pill) works in three different ways: (1) prevents ovulation/release of egg, (2) thickens cervical mucus, making it more difficult for sperm to travel through to reach an egg, and (3) makes implantation of a fertilized egg difficult by thinning the uterine lining. Ethical considerations mostly come into play with the third action – with the belief that life begins at conception, hormonal birth control technically could terminate a pregnancy in its earliest stages. So, as you make your choices about how to prevent pregnancy, consider these actions.

Want to Know More?

Teen Pregnancy Challenges
Healthy Teen Pregnancy
Week-By-Week Pregnancy E-Newsletter.

Compiled using information from the following sources:

1. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC): NCHS Data Briefing “Continued Declines in Teen Births in the United States, 2015.”

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/databriefs/db259.pdf

2. Guttmacher Institute: Teen Pregnancy (United States).

https://www.guttmacher.org/united-states/teens/teen-pregnancy

3. Guttmacher Institute: “U.S. Teen Pregnancy, Birth, and Abortion Rates Reach the Lowest Levels in Almost 4 Decades.”

https://www.guttmacher.org/news-release/2016/us-teen-pregnancy-birth-and-abortion-rates-reach-lowest-levels-almost-four-decades

Supporting Pregnant and Parenting Teens

Pregnant and parenting teens often face challenges balancing their school, work, and home lives with being a new parent. Teen parents are at increased risk for dropping out of school, unemployment, poverty, mental health issues, and child care concerns. Ensuring that adolescent parents receive adequate social, emotional, medical, and academic support is essential to the parent and the baby’s future. On this page, find information on expectant and parenting teens in out-of-home care and ways to support them. Resources include State and local examples.

Addressing the Needs of Pregnant and Parenting Youth in Foster Care: A Primer on Interagency Collaboration for Children’s Bureau Grantees
Capacity Building Center for States (2019)
Explains the services offered to pregnant and parenting youth in out-of-home care by the John H. Chafee Foster Care Program for Successful Transition to Adulthood and the Adolescent Pregnancy and Parenting Program. This tip sheet provides strategies for using both programs together to improve outcomes for pregnant and parenting youth in out-of-home care.

Challenges, Benefits Found in Providing Home Visiting Services for Pregnant and Parenting Foster Youth
Chapin Hall (2021)
Presents the results of a study that shows adolescent parents in foster care needing additional support, and one way to provide this support is through community-based home visiting programs. Outcomes from these interventions show positive effects in the areas of parent-child attachment, child and maternal health and development, parenting skills, and social support.

Connecting the Dots: A Resource Guide for Meeting the Needs of Expectant and Parenting Youth, Their Children, and Their Families
Center for the Study of Social Policy (2019)
Offers information on interventions and services for expectant and parenting youth involved with the child welfare system to help improve parent and child well-being outcomes.

Helping Teen Parents and Their Children Build Healthy Futures
HealthyChildren. org (2017)
Discusses teen parenting, including how to prepare teens for parenthood, the importance of getting young fathers involved, what to expect in the future, and more.

Leveraging the Family First Prevention Services Act for Older Youth: Prevention Provisions
American Bar Association (2019)
Explains provisions of the Family First Prevention Services Act that will impact older youth, including the use of title IV-E funds to provide services to youth in foster care who are pregnant or parenting.

What Are Some Strategies for Supporting Pregnant and Parenting Teens in Foster Care?
Casey Family Programs (2018)
Examines challenges faced by child welfare agencies that are working with pregnant and parenting teens in foster care and discusses effective programs for this population that aim to ensure the healthy development of the teen parent and the child.

When Your Teen is Having a Baby
KidsHealth. org
Provides information for parents whose teens are pregnant or recently became parents. The website includes information on what parents may be feeling, what teens may be feeling, and special considerations for pregnant teens.

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For Young Parents
ShiftNC
Shares information on the education and medical rights of pregnant and parenting teens in North Carolina who are currently in school. The resource also offers information on where teen parents can access support resources such as, finding child care, finding support groups, financial benefits, and recommendations to stay healthy.

Overview of Policies and Considerations for Case Managers Working With Foster Youth Who Are Parenting
Florida Institute for Child Welfare
Presents a guide for child welfare caseworkers in Florida on working with pregnant or parenting youth who are transitioning out of the foster care system.

Parent Connection
Family Services
Highlights the Parent Connection program in Wisconsin designed to support teen parents and their children that offers the following programs, Parents as Teachers for teen parents, teen parent mentoring program, fatherhood programs, and young parent group and workshops.

Pregnant and Parenting Youth
Washington State Department of Children, Youth & Families (2019)
Provides guidance to child welfare workers engaged with expectant or parenting teens to ensure a successful transition to adulthood.

Providing Home Visiting to Parents in Care: The Illinois Pregnant and Parenting Youth in Care Home Visiting Pilot Experience
Children’s Home & Aid
Describes a home visiting program in Illinois that serves pregnant and parenting youth in care and links to a full report on the outcomes of the pilot program.

Teen Parenting
Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services
Offers information on supports for pregnant and parenting teens, especially those involved with child welfare services, in L.A. County, California.

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Early adolescent pregnancy

01/29/2020

Early pregnancy is a medical, psychological and acute social problem of modern society. The age of such pregnancy varies from 10 to 18 years. The most common age for teen pregnancy is 15-17 years old. Why is this happening? How to prevent early pregnancy

Causes of early pregnancy

The problem of teenage pregnancy occurs, as a rule, for several reasons at the same time and it is rarely possible to fix one specific

Sexual education of the child, or rather its absence. In today's adolescents, puberty begins at the age of 12, and their sexual desire also occurs earlier. It is very important to psychologically prepare the child for the upcoming changes in his intimate life, and continue to engage in sexual education until it is fully established. Often, parents do not have time to talk with the child on this topic, which can lead to unpleasant consequences such as infections or sexually transmitted diseases. Adolescents do not have sufficient information about sexuality.
Sexual promiscuity. This factor is more common in the so-called "bad companies", where children gather who do not have any extracurricular useful hobbies or responsibilities. The teenager wants to prove to friends from the "bad company" that he is already an adult and more experienced than his peers. We must not miss the point that the implementation of such actions often occurs under the influence of alcohol or drugs. Psychologists say that more active and aggressive children are more likely to experience early pregnancy.
Lack of knowledge about contraceptives or lack of funds to purchase them. Lack of knowledge about contraceptives, fear when buying, inability to use them or embarrassment when storing them at home also lead to such serious consequences. Parents are obliged to explain to their growing child what a condom is, what it is for, how to use it and where to buy it. If a teenager is embarrassed to buy a product in a pharmacy, parents can take care of this by buying the package themselves and inform their son or daughter about this.
Violence. Frequently, violent sexual acts occur within dysfunctional families where the perpetrator is a male relative. The reason for withholding this information from relatives is fear and shame. But, unfortunately, no one is immune from street rape.
Talk to your daughter about how to avoid dark alleys and streets at night, try not to be alone on the street at night, take care of the attacker's protective equipment (for example, buy a gas canister for her).
Planned pregnancy. Adolescents overwhelmed with feelings consciously conceive at 14-17 years of age. Thus, a teenage girl is trying to keep a young man, to prove to adults that she is already ready for an independent life, to show everyone her convictions that the age has come when she can become a mother. In this case, parents need to be more attentive to their children in love, talk in a timely manner about the fact that early pregnancy can cause complications in the health of the expectant mother or child, cause gynecological diseases and further infertility.

Psychological problems

Pregnancy in a teenage girl does not have the best effect on her psycho-emotional state. Having learned about pregnancy, which usually happens with a significant delay, young pregnant women first experience shock and guilt, get scared, lost and start to panic. It is almost impossible for a teenager with his still unformed and childish psyche to assess the situation and solve the problem on his own.

Some plunge into depression, while others hope for self-elimination of the problem - what if the pregnancy resolves or I just made a mistake. An important role in providing psychological assistance and support can be played by an adult with whom the minor has a trusting relationship. It can be a mother or grandmother, a school teacher or a psychologist, an older friend (neighbor, friend of the parents).

It is on how an adult behaves in this situation, having heard about the shocking news, the further behavior of the teenager, his decision on the outcome of the pregnancy, and in the case of gestation, the correct attitude towards his position and attitude to motherhood depend.

Trying to hide their situation, teenagers lead an asocial lifestyle to the last, possibly even before giving birth, smoke, use drugs and alcohol, hide their stomachs in every possible way with tight clothes, do not want to visit a doctor and follow his recommendations, which cannot but affect the health of the born child and young mother.

The psychological unpreparedness of the girl for motherhood either forces her to abandon the child while still in the hospital, or completely withdraw from his upbringing. Such a child is perceived by the young mother as a living reproach and grows up in the absence of love and affection.

Prevention of early pregnancy

The sexual education of a child depends only on the parents, their ability to find a common language with a teenager, the ability to listen and hear. Do not be shy to talk to your child about intimate life. It is necessary to come from afar and gradually expand the horizons of the child in this matter with films, books or presentations. Do not be shy to talk with a teenager about contraception and the consequences of sexual intercourse.

It is better to always try to maintain friendly relations with the child in order to be aware of changes in his personal life and, if necessary, help with wise advice or moral support. All sorts of jokes and ridicule will be inappropriate.

Pregnancy in a teenager is not a terrible sentence. The chances of a favorable outcome of early pregnancy are quite high. The main thing to remember is that during this period, a teenager needs the support of relatives and friends more than ever, and then a healthy and beloved baby will be born.

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Prevention of teenage pregnancy and abortion

The problem of protecting the reproductive health of the population, especially adolescents and young people, for the Republic of Belarus, as well as for the entire world community in modern conditions, is of particular medical and social significance. The social significance of adolescent health is due to the fact that they represent the closest reproductive, intellectual, economic, social, political and cultural reserve of society.

Adolescence is a critical period in which knowledge and skills are acquired, as well as values that can last a lifetime. In order to ensure their well-being and be able to actively participate in the development of their country, they must acquire a profession and life skills, as well as receive knowledge and services in the field of their own health. The formation of the current generation takes place in the conditions of information and communication technologies and globalization. Second, young people are one of the populations with a high prevalence of HIV infection. Almost a quarter of HIV-infected people are under 25 years of age. Young age is particularly vulnerable and limited.

The problem of early pregnancy is relevant because in the current socio-economic conditions of the country, the number of early pregnancy and childbirth among adolescents increases every year. This is a worldwide trend. One of the downsides of early pregnancy is that it harms the health of the teenage mother and her baby.

According to medical indicators, early pregnancy is considered to occur in a girl under the age of eighteen. Only by the age of eighteen, the girl's body is already sufficiently formed and completely ready for bearing and giving birth to a baby. Therefore, pregnancy and childbirth at a young age can be dangerous for both the life of the mother and the baby. The negative aspects of early pregnancy include the fact that 70% of pregnancies in adolescents end in abortions, and about 15% are miscarriages. And only 15% of girls can safely bear and give birth to babies.

Early initiation of sexual relations, combined with a low level of knowledge in this area, poor awareness of the means and methods of contraception and insufficient use of them, leads to an increase in the number of pregnancies among adolescents and, as a result, to an increase in the number of abortions, adverse birth outcomes and worsening of reproductive adolescent health.

The rate of use of contraceptive methods and means in Belarus is much lower than in Europe and the USA, especially at the first sexual contact. According to a study conducted in 2009year, only 44% of respondents aged 15-24 used any methods and means of contraception at the first sexual contact.

Main patterns of reproductive behavior of adolescent girls:

irregular sexual life;
many sexual partners;
insufficient sex education;
fear of parents and doctor;
using advice from friends in choosing a contraceptive method;
short-term use of contraception;
use of ineffective methods of contraception.

Lack of knowledge about contraception is a high risk of unwanted pregnancy. Moreover, the younger the age of adolescents, the more often they have abortions.

The Universal Declaration of Human Rights states that adolescents have the right:

to be informed about reproductive health and its components;
access to safe and effective methods of contraception;
conscious decision about the pace and timing of self-reproduction.

According to WHO recommendations, adolescents have the right to choose their contraceptive method and should have access to a variety of contraceptive choices.

Teenage pregnancies often end in abortion. Abortion, especially the first one, is fraught with various complications, including infertility. The so-called "secondary infertility" occurs in almost every second girl who has had an abortion. No matter how well it was done - this is a serious hormonal disruption of the cycle, severe stress. Other common consequences of abortion are inflammatory processes, which then take a long time to be treated.

In addition to the medical aspect of this problem, there is also a social aspect that takes into account the interpersonal relationship and interaction of family members. What parent would be happy to know that their fifteen-year-old daughter is pregnant? In the best case, if the girl's family accepts such news steadfastly, without reproaches and conflicts, and tries to morally support the teenager. It turns out that most parents themselves send their daughter for an abortion, disfiguring the psyche and health of the child.

Artificial termination of pregnancy cripples both the body and the soul of the girl. After an abortion, many girls will never be able to have children. The younger the age of the pregnant girl, the more dangerous the process of bearing a child and subsequent childbirth for her. Girls who become pregnant between the ages of thirteen and sixteen have a harder time carrying babies, they are much more likely to develop various pathologies of pregnancy (for example, anemia, severe toxicosis or placental insufficiency), which is why the risk of miscarriage is three times higher.

Pregnancy in adolescent girls aged 13-17, from a psychological point of view, has a destructive effect on the development of their emotional-volitional sphere, value orientations, the formation of sexual and maternal behavior. This applies to both “unfavorable” and “favorable” (according to the factors of desirability and “legality”) young pregnancies.

Today, the situation in Belarus is characterized by a low level of awareness of adolescents about family planning, sexuality, sexually transmitted diseases, methods of effective complex contraception, safe sex, etc. Adolescents prefer to receive information from the media (Internet), from friends and peers. They also do not try to discuss relationship issues, intimate problems with their parents, and parents, in turn, believe that there is no need for sexual education.

A huge role in reducing the rate of teenage pregnancies and abortions belongs to educational work. This method plays an important role in working with adolescents, so information about the detrimental consequences of abortion, methods of contraception and ways to avoid unwanted pregnancies should be fully accessible to everyone, regardless of the financial situation, age and social status of a person.

Sexuality education can help you avoid problems associated with teenage sexuality. But the question is not to "protect" from knowledge about one's sexuality or to inform about the possibility of contracting STIs, increasing the likelihood of "infection" while intoxicated, about HIV / AIDS. Most researchers in sex education see not only information on biology and contraception. The main thing is to bring up positive standards among the younger generations and give the foundations of morality: the formation of the values of a healthy lifestyle, the self-worth of children, a conscious attitude towards parenthood, positive marriage and family attitudes, and a culture of gender relations.

This is the only way to achieve positive results in solving the problem. Health protection really starts with information. But children should not be informed about gender issues on the street. Everything starts in the family. And they can get answers to more specific questions from doctors.

Sex education is not limited to issues of contraception and protection from diseases, but acts as part of the process of personality formation, it includes not only health problems, but also moral, legal, cultural and ethical aspects.

It is also undeniable that an increase in the contraceptive culture contributes to a decrease in the number of abortions.