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Communication and Your 1- to 3-Month-Old (for Parents)
Reviewed by: Mary L. Gavin, MD
en español La comunicación y su hijo de 1 a 3 meses
After the newborn stage, you and your baby will start to enjoy two-way "conversations" — exchanging smiles and sounds. As your baby becomes a more active and alert, a new personality will begin to shine through.
How Do Babies Communicate?Crying continues to be a baby's main way to communicate, and lets parents know that they need something. They also may still have fussy periods, or cry when overwhelmed by all the sights and sounds of the world.
Your baby will respond to the sound of your voice by turning their head and becoming quiet, smiling, or getting excited and moving their arms and legs. When you smile, your baby might smile back.
Babies are discovering their ability to make sounds: Soon you'll have a cooing and gurgling machine! Your baby will "talk" to you with a variety of sounds. Some babies begin to make some vowel sounds (like "ah-ah" or "ooh-ooh") during this time.
What Should I Do?- Interact with your baby often. Your baby loves the sound of your voice. So talk, read, sing, and coo away during these first few months. Respond enthusiastically to your baby's sounds and smiles. Tell your baby what they are looking at or doing and what you're doing. Name familiar objects as you touch them or bring them to your baby.
- Have "conversations" with your baby. If you hear your baby make a sound, repeat it and wait for an answer. You're teaching your baby valuable lessons about tone, pacing, and taking turns when talking to someone else. This also sends the message that your baby is important enough to listen to. Don't interrupt or look away when your baby is "talking" — show you're interested and that your little one can trust you.
- Notice when your baby needs quiet time. Sometimes babies aren't in the mood to talk or vocalize. They may need to take a break from all the stimulation. Babies might turn away, close their eyes, or become fussy or irritable. If this happens, let your little one rest or just try cuddling.
Most babies have a fussy period about the same time every day, which usually begins in early evening. Though all newborns cry and can be fussy, when an infant who is otherwise healthy cries for more than 3 hours per day, more than 3 days per week for at least 3 weeks, it is a condition known as colic.
This can be upsetting, but the good news is that most babies outgrow it at around 3 or 4 months of age.
When Should I Call the Doctor?Talk to your doctor if you are concerned about your baby's communication skills or hearing. By the end of this period, most babies:
- react to loud sounds
- make sounds other than crying
- smile when you talk to them
- smile when you smile at them
Keep in mind that there's a wide range of what's considered normal, so some babies gain skills earlier or later than others.
Reviewed by: Mary L. Gavin, MD
Date reviewed: May 2022
Tips on How to Talk to Your Baby
Written by WebMD Editorial Contributors
In this Article
- Why It's Good for Your Baby’s Brain
- Baby Talk Basics
- At 1 to 3 months
- At 4 to 7 months
- At 8 to 12 months
You play "peek-a-boo" with your baby. You talk to them while you're changing their diaper. You sing to them as you rock them to sleep. And when they happily coo, babble, and gurgle, you make those sounds right along with them.
It's fun, but it’s also crucial to their development.
Their young brain is soaking up the sounds, tones, and language they'll use to say their first words. You play a big role. Children who have parents who talk to them often tend to form stronger language and conversational skills than kids who don't.
The best way to speak to your little one may be what comes most naturally: that sing-songy way many of us speak to infants -- "How are youuu?!" "You want the baaaall?" It's baby talk, and it can fuel your child's language development.
Why It's Good for Your Baby’s Brain
Infants tend to pay more attention and respond more eagerly to baby talk than to normal adult conversation. The playfully exaggerated and high-pitched tone your voice takes lights up your little one's mind.
Eighty percent of their brain’s physical development happens during their first 3 years. As their brain gets bigger, it also forms the connections it needs to think, learn, and process information. These connections, called synapses, form at a super-fast rate, about 700 per second in the first few years.
Speaking to your baby fires up those important synapses in the part of their brain that handles language. The more words they hear, the stronger those mental connections get. That process can strengthen your child’s future language skills and their overall ability to learn.
Infants who get more baby talk know more words by age 2 than their peers.
Baby Talk Basics
For your little one to get the most benefits:
- Talk with them often. Talkative parents tend to have talkative children.
- Get some alone time with your infant. Baby talk is most beneficial when it's one-on-one between parent and child, with no other adults or children around.
- When your baby tries to talk back to you, don't interrupt or look away. They need to know you care about listening to them.
- Look your child in the eyes. They'll respond better to speech when they are looking right at you.
- Limit how much TV they see and hear. Too much can stunt language growth. Besides, you’re more fun than the voice on the screen, right?
- Throw in some grown-up speak, too. Your baby needs to hear how words sound in everyday conversation.
As your child develops and matures, so should the way you talk to them.
At 1 to 3 months
Your infant is communicating with you by cooing, making gurgling sounds and, of course, crying. They are also listening to you -- they may smile, move their arms and legs, or coo when you speak to them a certain way.
- Talk, sing, coo, babble, and play peek-a-boo with your child.
- Narrate your activities. During baths, meals, or play, tell them what you're doing and what they are looking at.
- Read to your baby and talk about the pictures you see.
- Celebrate, smile, and act excited when they make sounds and smiles.
- At around 2 months, babies start making vowel sounds ("ah-ah" or "oh-oh"). Mimic these sounds, and mix in some real words, too.
- When they make a sound, you should make the sound as well, and then wait for them to respond. This will teach them how to have a conversation.
At 4 to 7 months
They’ll start trying to copy sounds they hear. You'll notice them exploring their own sounds and inflections. They may even raise or drop their voice as they try to express their feelings.
- Use the noises they make to encourage words. If they say "bah," say "bottle" or "book."
- Expand your conversations. When talking, speak slowly and start stressing certain words. For example, hold a ball and say, "Do you want a ball? This is your ball." Then be silent to encourage them to respond.
- Introduce your baby to different objects. When they look at something, point it out and tell them what it is.
- Read to your child every day, especially colorful picture books and magazines. Name the pictures you see and praise your baby when they babble along with you as you read.
At 8 to 12 months
They’ll start to understand certain words (like "no") and say some, too (like "mama" or "dada"). By the time they are a year old, they’ll also understand certain commands, like "Wave bye-bye."
- Keep talking about what you and your baby are doing, looking at, or pointing to. If they point to a car and say "car," say “Yes, that’s a red car.”
- Name just about every object your child comes in contact with -- a toy, spoon, milk, etc. Also start pointing out body parts -- point to their arm and say, "arm," and point to yours and say, "Daddy's (or Mommy's) arm. "
- Help your child express in words what they are feeling.
- Use positive statements to direct their behavior. Instead of saying "Don't stand," say "Time to sit."
- When you need to stop your child from doing something, say a firm “no.” Don’t yell or give long explanations.
- Sing songs that have actions, like "Itsy Bitsy Spider." Have fun acting out the song with your child.
- Babies at this age love to imitate words they hear, so you might want to watch what you say, or you may hear it repeated.
All children learn to communicate at their own pace. Don't worry too much if your baby isn’t talking as quickly as you'd thought they would. If you have real concerns, though, talk with their doctor about it.
Early Childhood Speech Development Calendar
Early childhood is considered a very important period in a child's life.
This is the time of the most rapid and rapid changes in the mental and physical development of the baby, the child takes the first steps, learns to speak, begins to use gestures and other means of communication.
3 weeks - 1 month - there is a cry indicating emotional discomfort, pain or hunger. With physical stress, the child groans, making the sounds "a", "e". nine0003
2 - 3 months : the baby has a cooing, he utters simple sounds - " a", "y", "s ", sometimes in combination with " g ". This is an important stage in the development of speech in young children.
4 - 6 months - makes high melodious sounds, sounds of exclamation, reacts with joyful sounds to the faces of loved ones.
6 - 9 months - babbling, he repeats the same syllables (“ma-ma-ma”, “ba-ba-ba”, “dya-dya-dya”, “gu-gu-gu”).
9 - 11 months - the baby begins to imitate the sounds of adult speech.
11 - 14 months - the first meaningful words "mom", "dad", "woman", "uncle" appear, from 8 to 14 words. Correlates a word with an object
By the age of 2 years there are 100-200 words in the baby's vocabulary. He is already building a sentence of 2-3 words.
By the age of 3 the volume of the dictionary increases to 1000 words by enriching the child's life experience. Simple prepositions appear: in, on, under, for, with, at. The child remembers poems, children's songs. nine0003
By the end of 3 years , most children are able to construct sentences grammatically correctly, conduct dialogues, tell what they have seen and heard.
Important to know:
Do not listen to advice from other parents whose children began to say after 3 years that the child will speak on his own. He will speak, the only question is what kind of speech it will be, its quality.
How to identify the signs of a speech disorder in a child? nine0016
By the end of 1 month the baby does not cry before feeding
By the end of 4 months does not smile when his mother talks to him, does not coo.
By the end of the 5th month does not listen to sounds and music
By the end of the 7th month does not react to the intonation of the voice, does not recognize the mother’s voice with a “revitalization complex” syllables for adults
By the end of 1 year the child does not wave his head when saying goodbye in denial. He does not utter a single word and does not follow simple instructions: “give”, “on”, “take”.
By the age of 1.5, does not show or name mom and dad, does not build a tower of blocks, does not differentiate sounding toys, does not use a pointing gesture.
By age 2 does not show body parts, does not show mom and dad in the photo, does not follow the two-step instruction (go to the kitchen and put the plate on the table)
By the age of 2.5, does not distinguish between “big and small”, does not communicate with children.
By the age of 3, cannot give his first and last name, tell a simple poem and a fairy tale.
If this does not happen, there is a reason to contact specialists.
Possible causes of speech disorders
- Viral and endocrine diseases of the mother, threatened miscarriage, trauma, toxicosis, low hemoglobin level. nine0116
- Genetic anomalies, hereditary predisposition.
- Unfavorable delivery.
- Diseases borne by a child in the first years of life
- Babies with low Apgar scores at birth
The exact cause of the disorders is determined by the doctor, and the type of speech disorder is determined by the speech therapist.
So what can parents do to improve speech development?
Speech is the highest mental function, so the period of intrauterine development of a child is very important. Parents need to take care of the development of speech even before his birth. nine0009 It is important that the expectant mother receives only positive emotions i.
Communicate more with your baby! Goodwill, a soft and calm voice, grammatically correct speech is another important factor in the development of speech.
Often, children, using only a pointing gesture, get what they want. Teach your child to express his desires as fully as possible, say new words, sentences.
Do not scold your child for mispronounced words. This can provoke neurotic reactions. He will shut up, stop speaking and learning new words. nine0003
Develop your baby's ability to listen and pay attention. Play games with him that help him develop his ability to listen and hear: “Listen, what's ticking there? And what's that noise?" Let the baby learn to distinguish between speech and non-speech sounds (environmental sounds).
Teach your child fairy tales, poems, because memorizing them and repeating, he learns new words, trains memory and attention.
Important to know:
Speech disorders can be corrected - it is important not to waste time! nine0003
Author-compiler: Mikhnovich O. F. teacher-speech therapist
Speech developmental delay: how to help a child speak healthy children. Often the parents themselves are the cause of the child's speech difficulties. The chief pediatric neurologist of the Ministry of Health of the Tver Region, Galina Anatolyevna Zueva, tells what to do and what should not be done in any case so that the child speaks correctly and on time. nine0003
Hello dear parents!
Today our conversation is devoted to a very important and urgent problem - the speech development of children. In the last few years, we have increasingly heard that a child who does not speak at 2.5-3 years old is a variant of the norm, that there is nothing wrong with that, you need to wait a bit, and speech will appear. In fact, this approach is fundamentally wrong. There are physiological norms for proper speech and mental development, and it is very important to monitor their observance from the very birth of a child. Only in this case, he will be able to develop harmoniously and fully. nine0003
The main stages in the development of a child's speech
You can start developing your baby's speech from the first day of his birth.
The first thing to notice is how the baby cries. The crying of a child from birth is very different, it becomes especially expressive by the first month of life, from it you can understand what the baby needs: it is cold, it hurts, he wants to eat or go to the toilet, or maybe he just wants his mother to take it in her arms . If the child does everything right intonation, then the attentive mother quickly learns to understand the difference and respond to these “requests”. In this case, mental, and then speech development occurs harmoniously. If the baby cries monotonously, at the same level, and does not respond well to the voice, consult a doctor. nine0003
If the child is healthy and does not have hearing problems, then in response to positive emotions in the second month of life, he begins to “walk”. Together with the "cooing" the first laugh appears - squealing in response to emotional communication with an adult. The sounds of “humming” are already distinguished by a certain variety with a predominance of combinations of guttural and vowel sounds (“gu”, “ge”, “ha”, etc.) With these sounds, he tries to communicate, reacts to what is happening around him. If the baby does not start to “walk”, consult a doctor, he may have a problem with his ears. nine0003
The period of onomatopoeia begins from two months: the baby carefully follows mother's lips when she talks to him, and as if tries to repeat these movements, but so far silently. So, by 3.5-4 months, a true “coo” is formed, where the child focuses on the sound being pronounced, the syllable, as if listening to himself. During the period of true "humming" sounds become long, melodious and more diverse. Along with guttural and vowels, labial sounds and combinations of vowels with labials are increasingly appearing. nine0003
By the age of six months, the child begins to babble - he begins to pronounce some individual letters, syllables. During this period, it is important to track intonations - how he speaks, how he cries. At six months, a healthy child should already be chatting, pronouncing certain syllables, repeating specific sounds after his mother. During the period of babbling, imitation of the sounds of an adult becomes more distinct.
By the end of the pre-verbal period, the child's non-verbal forms of communication with others become more complicated. Communication is carried out with the help of both hands, more differentiated facial expressions and sounds. The child stretches his hands to his mother, utters separate sounds, as if asking "take me." Then the facial expressions become more complicated. It becomes more expressive, symbolic gestures appear. The child can communicate with one hand. Babble words of various intonations appear. nine0003
By the age of one, a child should speak 8 to 10 simple words: “mom”, “dad”, “baba”, “give”, “on”, that is, short simple words of several syllables. It is during this period that early speech development ends and motor speech begins to form as a way of communication between people.
After a year and a half, the child easily pronounces familiar and unfamiliar words by imitation, both addressed to him and accidentally heard from others. Intensive development of motor speech usually begins in the second half of the 2nd year of life. Up to one year and six months, a child pronounces about 30 words that are simple in sound composition. At two years old, the child already speaks more than 200 words, he has almost phrasal speech, he should already be able to formulate a simple thought or request: “Mom, let's go to the store, you promised to buy me a toy.” At the same time, he can still pronounce some sounds indistinctly. By the age of three, a child's speech has up to 1200-1500 words, including almost all parts of speech. nine0003
This development is considered normal. But this happens only when the parents constantly talk to the child, tell him stories, sing lullabies. A very big problem today is that live speech is increasingly being replaced by gadgets. Because of this, many children who are initially born healthy from the point of view of neurology do not begin to speak on time.
If a healthy child at 2.5-3 years old does not speak phrasal speech at all and, at best, only speaks single simple words, he has a delay in speech development, and this, unfortunately, must be treated. nine0003
Speech develops gradually
It takes time for a child to learn to speak correctly and build logical, figurative phrases. When a child is just learning to walk, with his mother's help he takes the first uncertain steps, and after six months or a year he already runs, jumps and dances on his own. The same thing happens with speech: it develops gradually. The child not only memorizes new words, but at the same time trains articulatory muscles, learns to control intonation. It takes more than one year. Therefore, if at 3-3.5 years old your child is just beginning to pronounce the first words and build simple phrases like “mom, give me,” then by the age of six, when it’s time to go to school, he will not form a full-fledged phrasal speech. It is important to engage in the development of speech gradually, but from a very early age. nine0003
Causes of delayed speech development
The first and most basic reason is brain damage due to ischemia, hemorrhage, infection. But such deviations are diagnosed immediately, doctors monitor the child and take all the necessary measures. These are the patients with whom the neurologist, psychologist and speech therapist are already working.
But there is a category of patients who are born absolutely healthy. But due to errors in learning, they also begin to delay in speech development. Most often, the reason is the excessive passion of parents for mechanical sound, that is, the sound from a TV, computer, tablet, phone. Children who watch a lot of cartoons or constantly play with singing-talking toys develop passive speech well, but their own active speech is not formed. This is due to the difference in the wavelength of live speech and mechanical speech. In order for the child to start talking, you need to talk with him as much as possible, read fairy tales yourself, sing lullabies. nine0003
Never let the TV or radio play in the background in the room where the baby spends time. Of course, if you want to show your child some kind of cartoon or program on a computer, this can and should be done, but after viewing the device must be turned off and put away.
Of course, all these devices and toys allow mom to relax a little or do some other business. But when they replace live communication, this leads to serious problems with the child's psyche. It is better to prevent such things than to catch up for years later. To restore the correct stereotype of speech in a three-year-old child, to change his perception, it takes a lot of effort and time: the child cannot quickly catch up with such gaps, one has to resort to intensive drug treatment, to additional classes with speech therapists. It's a long and difficult road. Why bring it to this when you can do everything right from the very beginning? nine0003
Why you should sing lullabies
Singing lullabies is an important part of raising a child. The most famous lullabies, for example, “bayu-bayushki-bayu”, were invented back in the 5th-6th century, and it is not by chance that we still sing them to children. They are built specifically in the timbre and wave length fluctuations that are understandable to the child, soothe him, develop the brain. There are songs for every age to sing. Singing such lullabies to a small child and simultaneously rocking him in your arms creates the basis for proper mental development. nine0003
Now many couples approach pregnancy planning with full responsibility: they lead a healthy lifestyle, take all the tests, read books about the health and upbringing of the unborn child. Include in this preparation and learning at least a few lullabies to sing to your baby. No matter how simple they may seem to you, they contain folk wisdom worked out over the centuries for the proper development of a person, this is very important. Sing these lullabies for at least a year.
By the age of two, when the child already understands phrasal speech well, songs can be selected with more storylines, so that while the mother is singing, he can imagine this picture in his head. nine0003
Talk to your child as much as possible
Do not rush to talk to your child, calmly and measuredly tell him what is happening around, voice your actions. Then he will begin to perceive by ear the name of this or that object, this is how passive speech is formed. From six months, add details about the color and volume of objects: “small toy”, “red ball”. When you do this consistently, the child learns to hear and understand you.
This helps to explain to the baby after a year that the panties should be dry, that is, it is quite early to teach the child to the potty, and not to use diapers all the time. At a year and a half, the child is able to hold the bladder, control his pelvic functions. This is one of the important links in mental development. Of course, he will eventually learn to ask to use the toilet himself, but these skills will come much later and no longer in the form in which he would like.
Therefore, it is very important to accustom yourself to talk with the baby as much as possible and limit the mechanical sounds around him as much as possible - these are the most important links in the prevention of speech development delay. If we build this correctly, then at the age of 2.5 the child begins to speak in phrase speech, and parents have no problems with his behavior and learning. If your child at 2.5 years old does not speak, especially if there is no so-called gibberish of his own, he is silent and does not voice the game, asking you for something, then this is not a variant of the norm, this is a problem that needs to be dealt with. nine0003
How to talk to a child
- You need to talk to your child in an ordinary tone, it is this tone and tone of yours that the child knows from his prenatal state.
- Try to speak in simple phrases, but do not lisp, do not distort words.
- If the child has a problem with vision or hearing, then the mother needs to start brightly painting her lips as soon as possible so that he can follow her lips and understand exactly how she pronounces sounds. nine0116
- If a child in the first year of life had problems with swallowing, then, unfortunately, problems with sound pronunciation cannot be avoided. You can start studying with a special speech therapist already in the first months of a baby’s life, even in the pre-speech period.
- Deal with all problems as soon as they appear, do not delay and do not wait for it to pass by itself. It won't pass.
Ordinary or speech therapy garden?
So, the child has grown up, and it's time to decide which preschool institution to take him to. At this point, it is important to figure out if your baby has mental and speech problems, and which ones. nine0003
When your baby does not have any serious medical problems, start with a regular garden. If in the first year speech does not level off and does not develop to the desired level, then it is worth applying for the medical and pedagogical commission. It runs from February to June. You can get a referral from the day care center or call them and make an appointment. To pass the medical and pedagogical commission, you must have the conclusion of a neurologist, speech therapist, psychiatrist about the state of health of your child. nine0003
If a child has begun to speak in phrasal speech, but does not pronounce certain sounds, then you can take him to a regular kindergarten, which has speech therapy groups. They work with children with normal psycho-speech development, but with incorrect settings for the sounds themselves. Usually a speech therapist starts working with such children from the age of five in order to even out speech and correct all weak sounds by school. On average, it takes three months to set up and fix one sound.
One of the most common disorders in children aged 3-3.5 years is the so-called porridge in the mouth, when, due to a violation of the innervation of the speech muscles, the child cannot pronounce some of the sounds clearly and understandably. In this case, one cannot do without the help of a specialist, it is better to contact a neurologist to establish the exact cause of dysarthria and carry out the necessary treatment, if necessary, it is also necessary to visit a special speech therapy garden. It requires an integrated approach: simultaneous coordinated work of a speech therapist, neurologist and psychologist. nine0003
The Medical and Pedagogical Commission is in charge of assigning children to specialized groups or kindergartens.
And I repeat again, it is much easier to deal with the prevention of speech development delay, so that those children who could speak, but due to insufficient attention from their parents, did not start, did not fall into special groups. To do this, it is important not just to talk with the child, but to hear what he is talking about, try to understand him and respond to his words. I assure you, if you establish this contact from childhood, it will last for a lifetime, help the baby become a good member of the family, society, reliable support and support for you. nine0003
How to prevent stuttering
There are times when a child does not start talking for a long time, while they are being taught, he accumulates a large passive vocabulary, he can compose phrases in his head. If you start his speech process excessively actively, then he will not cope with the flow of speech and will begin to stutter. Most often this happens at 2.5-3 years. Children with tics are especially prone to stuttering (obsessive blinking, blinking, sniffing, and the like). If you notice that at the beginning of speech the child begins to stutter, this is a signal that you need to contact a neurologist to solve the problem. Of all the obsessive-compulsive disorders, stuttering is the most complex and can take years to cure. nine0003
The nipple and speech development of the child
Another important aspect of the prevention of speech delay is prolonged use of nipples and prolonged breastfeeding. I mean the situation when a pacifier or mother's breast is in the child's mouth not for calming or feeding, but just like that, in a state of wakefulness. In this case, the problem arises purely mechanical: in order to speak, the mouth must be free, and if the mouth is occupied, then it is impossible to speak - the nipple or chest interferes. nine0003
The pacifier can be used when the baby falls asleep, when sick, when hit, but must be removed when awake. After two years, the pacifier should be discarded completely. This will help to avoid speech problems and maintain the correct bite, which will significantly reduce your financial costs in the future when treating your beloved child's ugly teeth by an orthodontist.
The same applies to the mother's breast. It should be a source of food or a means of sedation, nothing more. Of course, breast milk contains a lot of good substances, but it is needed exactly until the child begins to eat normal human food. Breast sucking is very important for the formation of psychological communication between mother and child. But by the age of two, the child already understands the addressed speech well, he can speak himself, so this connection only strengthens and will not be interrupted after weaning the child from the breast. nine0003
It is important to wean your baby from thumb sucking from the very beginning. By the age of 2.5-3 years, the child should be able to safely do without a pacifier, mother's breast or sucking fingers. Why? During sucking, rocking-translational movements give a feeling of calm, sedation. With age, the child's need for such movements weakens, now he needs to learn about the world around him, to be active. And if the child continues to suck a finger or a dummy, then he automatically transfers himself to the infant period, behaves like a baby and does not give himself the opportunity to fully develop. nine0003
Gadgets: harm or benefit
Modern devices, on the one hand, are very useful, but when it comes to children, you need to be extremely careful and careful. Nobody says that you don't need to use TV and gadgets at all. This is an important part of modern life, children should be able to master them. But a small child still does not have the skills of speech, movements, motor skills, proper mental development, criticism, self-criticism, and the ability to control oneself are incorrectly formed. Therefore, it is very dangerous to uncontrollably give him something that can provoke improper development. nine0003
In Russia, little is said about this, and today in most families gadgets are used beyond the permissible limits, for each family member, including a baby, there are two to three gadgets. At the same time, in the same high-tech Japan, children are allowed to use a telephone or computer only from the age of five, when the nervous system has matured. And I agree with their approach. Yes, you can include some educational games or cartoons for your child, but no more than 30-40 minutes a day on a good screen with good sound. Tablets and smartphones are best avoided because young children quickly form color and tactile addictions. nine0003
Into the wilderness, to the village
Finally, I would like to advise all parents to spend more time with their children outdoors. This will be especially useful for kids who have problems with psycho-speech development.