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The let-down reflex is an important part of breastfeeding that starts milk flowing when your baby feeds. Each woman feels it differently, and some may not feel it at all. It can be affected by stress, pain and tiredness but once feeding is established, it requires little or no thought.
What is the let-down reflex?
The let-down reflex is what makes breastmilk flow. When your baby sucks at the breast, tiny nerves are stimulated. This causes two hormones – prolactin and oxytocin – to be released into your bloodstream. Prolactin helps make the milk, while oxytocin causes the breast to push out the milk. Milk is then released or let down through the nipple.
Some women feel the let-down reflex as a tingling sensation in the breasts or a feeling of fullness, although others don’t feel anything in the breast.
Most women notice a change in their baby’s sucking pattern as the milk begins to flow, from small, shallow sucks to stronger, slower sucks.
Some women also notice, while feeding or expressing from one breast, that milk drips from the other.
Your let-down reflex needs to be established and maintained to ensure a good supply of milk. This reflex requires no thought, unless you are having problems with breastfeeding.
When does it occur?
The let-down reflex occurs:
- in response to your baby sucking at the breast
- hearing, seeing or thinking about your baby
- using a breast pump, hand expressing or touching your breasts or nipples
- looking at a picture of your baby
- hearing your baby (or another baby) cry
The let-down reflex generally occurs 2 or 3 times a feed. Most women only feel the first, if at all. This reflex is not always consistent, particularly early on, but after a few weeks of regular breastfeeding or expressing, it becomes an automatic response.
The let-down reflex can also occur with other stimulation of the breast, such as by your partner.
Strategies to encourage the reflex
The let-down reflex can be affected by stress, pain and tiredness. There are many things to try if you are experiencing difficulty.
- Ensure that your baby is correctly attached to the breast. A well-attached baby will drain a breast better.
- Feed or express in a familiar and comfortable environment.
- Try different methods to help you to relax: calming music, a warm shower or a warm washer on the breast, some slow deep breathing, or a neck and shoulder massage.
- Gently hand express and massage your breast before commencing the feed.
- Look at and think about your baby.
- If you are away from your baby, try looking at your baby’s photo.
- Always have a glass of water nearby.
Milk let-down can be quite forceful, particularly at the beginning of a feed. This fast flow of milk can upset your baby, but it might not mean you have oversupply. It can be managed through expressing before a feed, reclining slightly and burping your baby after the first few minutes. If you continue to have problems, seek advice.
How to deal with unexpected let-down
Until you and your baby fine-tune breastfeeding, many sensations and thoughts can trigger your let-down reflex. Leaking breasts can be embarrassing, but should stop once breastfeeding is fully established.
In the meantime you can feed regularly, apply firm pressure to your breasts when you feel the first sensation of let-down, use breast pads and wear clothing that disguises milk stains.
If you need help and advice:
- Pregnancy Birth and Baby on 1800 882 436
- your maternal child health nurse
- a lactation consultant (your maternity hospital might be able to help)
- Australian Breastfeeding Association on 1800 686 268
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Letdown Definition & Meaning - Merriam-Webster
1 of 2
let·down ˈlet-ˌdau̇n
1
a
: discouragement, disappointment
his latest novel is a letdown
b
: a slackening of effort : relaxation
2
: the descent of an aircraft or spacecraft to the point at which a landing approach is begun
3
: a physiological response of a lactating mammal to suckling and allied stimuli whereby previously secreted milk from the acini is expelled into ducts and drawn through the nipple
let down
2 of 2
transitive verb
1
: to allow to descend gradually
2
a
: to fail to support
felt her parents had let her down
b
: disappoint
the plot lets you down at the end
afraid of letting his father down
Synonyms
Noun
- disappointment
- dismay
- dissatisfaction
- frustration
Verb
- cheat
- disappoint
- dissatisfy
- fail
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Example Sentences
Noun the museum exhibit was just so-so, and we returned home with a vague sense of letdown the eagerly anticipated new movie starring our favorite actor turned out to be a big letdown Verb with my poor performance I really felt that I had let my teammates down
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Noun
1768, in the meaning defined at sense 1a
Verb
12th century, in the meaning defined at sense 1
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letdown
1 of 2 noun
let·down ˈlet-ˌdau̇n
1
: disappointment sense 2
2
: a slackening of effort
let down
2 of 2 verb
(ˈ)let-ˈdau̇n
1
: to fail to help or support
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: to fail to come up to expectations : disappoint
the end of the story lets the reader down
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letdown
1 of 2 noun
ˈlet-ˌdau̇n
: a physiological response of a lactating mammal to suckling and allied stimuli whereby increased intramammary pressure forces previously secreted milk from the acini and finer tubules into the main collecting ducts from where it can be drawn through the nipple
let down
2 of 2 transitive verb
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: to release (formed milk) within the mammary gland or udder
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A few years ago, the journal Science published a study revealing the biochemistry of disappointment. It turns out that it is accompanied by a complex and uncharacteristic for our brain double reaction. This discovery will help scientists find new drugs for depression, and we will understand that the state of disappointment is not as harmless as it seems at first glance.
In the article we talk about resources and possible dangers of disappointment, self-diagnosis techniques and exit strategies. nine0003
What is disappointment?
Disappointment is a negatively colored emotional state, which is manifested by dissatisfaction and a tendency to worry about unfulfilled dreams, aspirations or hopes, as well as the collapse of faith in something or someone. It occurs after a situation in which a person loses his “rose-colored glasses” and faces reality. It appears when a carefully planned or even idealized result turns out to be unattainable and at one moment all illusions collapse. We can say that disappointment is the other side of hope. nine0003
Uncharm is the logical, final stage of charm . If the first is accompanied by joyful euphoria, pleasure or an intoxicating state of consciousness, then the second is impossible without sadness, anger, emptiness. Disappointment is considered one of the most difficult emotional states, when a person experiences sadness, anger, resentment at the same time. How energy-consuming it can be is shown by the epithets for the word “disappointment”: hopeless, painful, unbearable, or even murderous. nine0003
A few facts that will help you better understand disappointment:
- This is one of the configurations of frustration - a state in which a person realizes the impossibility of achieving the desired and experiences anger, despair, anxiety about this.
- Depending on the strength of emotions, it has a wide scale of gradations from “ oh well ” to “ a complete bummer!”.
- If immersed in it for too long, it can become a quality of the personality. nine0019 Looking disappointed means trying to be in charge. It is always a question of power and submission.
- This is not an innate, but a culturally learned egocentric emotion. It is often used as a reproach or justification for one's inaction. Less often - for decoration or attracting attention.
- It always contains the image of another "bad", therefore it divides, puts up barriers between people.
- A disappointed person loses hope and support in life. Therefore, this condition is physically associated with problems with the spine, a feeling of heaviness in the head and hands. If regret accumulates over the years, it literally does not allow you to breathe deeply and leads to problems with the lungs (tuberculosis, for example). nine0020
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What is the source of the state of disappointment?
But disappointment also has useful qualities. It helps to return to a state of balance when we:
- Get too deep in our expectations, illusions or fantasies about something or someone.
- We continue to live with children's magical thinking with faith in universal justice and universal love.
- Giving excess value to food, sex, money, material goods. nine0020
- We demand the impossible from ourselves and fight with all our might with a problem that we cannot solve.
- We are going not to our own, but to the goal imposed by stereotypes and other people's expectations.
- We get hung up on predictability, planning, control, trying to predict everything to the smallest detail.
Disappointment in people becomes dangerous when it goes into depreciation. Devaluation is the denial of any value of relationships, experiences, experiences. It anesthetizes, but kills spiritual growth and positive emotions. Disappointment without depreciation provides valuable experience, deepens and transforms relationships, strengthens self-confidence. nine0003
Five stages on the way from charm to maturity.
Psychologists say that a person feels disappointed for as long as it takes to reorient the psyche and consciousness. Moreover, such experience is an obligatory step on the way to maturity.
How the complete process of disappointment happens:
First stage: charm.
When a person is enchanted, he seems to fall under a spell: ideas, hobbies, another person, profession, new job. A very pleasant and necessary state, but also very short-lived. nine0003
Second stage: disappointment.
This is the disenchantment process when illusions are broken. The main symptoms of the second stage: loss of hope, indignation, attempts to drown out the pain with bad habits (alcoholism, drug addiction), denial. At this stage, people either “break down” or analyze the causes of their condition. Sometimes they go to a psychotherapist for an answer.
Third stage: restoration.
Those who manage to pull themselves together and get out of a dangerous turn reach this stage. Recovery provides inspiration for creativity, releases strength for new relationships. nine0003
Fourth stage: maturity.
During this period a person is at the peak of his abilities. He becomes the Owner, not the Victim: he builds comfortable relationships with others, stops complaining, feels gratitude for any opportunities.
Fifth stage: satisfaction.
This is the satisfaction of having managed to pull myself together and enter a new stage of life. It is the pleasure of having an old problem solved and no longer disturbing. In general, people who have reached this stage become kinder. Perhaps it is from wisdom. nine0003
Such an interesting transformation. But in order to pass it, you have to work on yourself.
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How to overcome disappointment with minimal losses?
Unofficial statistics among psychotherapists show that disappointment in life is behind the majority of client requests. Of course, in most cases we are disappointed in love relationships. But not only. This condition is often associated with a career, loss of an old point of view, or getting rid of illusions. In some cases, it is experienced as a difficult moment, in others - as a long psychological process. nine0003
Waiting for it to “go away on its own” is useless. But you can use the ready-made strategy and move on.
1. Feel all painful emotions.
It is necessary to be aware of your emotional reaction, even if it is traumatic. If you do not admit it, disappointment will become more and more powerful over time and can lead to depression.
2. Give yourself time to mourn.
To get rid of negativity, you need to live it “to the very bottom”. Don't blame, scold yourself, or pretend like nothing's happening. It is better to set aside a day, a week (depending on the strength of emotions) for yourself and enjoy it to your heart's content. nine0003
3. Understand your expectations in a particular situation.
For example, disappointment in a person could come because of high standards - to him or to himself. Or because of too active idealization of a partner.
4. Give yourself time to recover.
Think about what would be the best solution for your situation? What lessons can you take from it? So it will be possible to understand that such a state is not the end, but only a period of life.
5 .Switch to resource activity. nine0067
It is more useful if it is creativity. Anything, as long as it gives energy and leaves joy. Additional forces will come in handy in order to return to your goals and move on.
Conclusions :
- Disappointment is an experience that comes after facing reality.
- It becomes a resource state in situations when you need to slow down, reconsider your outlook on life, get rid of illusions, acquire spiritual experience, accumulate potential, find harmony and peace. nine0020
- It's part of life. You'll just have to come to terms with it.
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Surely each of us is familiar with the feeling of sadness, sadness because of unfulfilled desires and hopes. You wanted it to be like this, but it didn't turn out the way you wanted? Plans collapsed, and a loved one failed and did not do what he promised? The emotions that you experience at this moment add up to emotional disappointment.
In this article, you will learn what disappointment is in terms of psychology and how to deal with disappointment in life. nine0003
Article content
- What does total disappointment mean?
- Factors leading to nervous tension nine0020
- How to deal with disappointment nine0159 FAQ
- Expert opinion nine0169
- express, express, write on paper all the feelings that gnaw at you, live them, if you want to cry - cry, scream - scream, and after an emotional outburst, let go of the situation and return to normal life - do not accumulate resentment in yourself
- always listen to your desires, do not let someone impose your point of view or actions on you, because you can be disappointed in yourself, because you did not do what you would like nine0019 try to be more flexible - planning is good, but you can’t set such “hard limits” for yourself so that later you don’t feel disappointed by failed plans
- never compare yourself with other people - everyone has their own path, their own abilities, skills, there are different situations that cannot be “equalized” among themselves. Don't underestimate your accomplishments!
- bring bright colors to life, hobbies, hobbies, feelings will help you with this
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What does total disappointment mean
Disappointment is a set of negative emotions that we experience when reality and our expectations do not match. That is, it is annoyance from unfulfilled hopes, a feeling of dissatisfaction with the result obtained (because we imagined a different outcome of events).
That is, when we are disappointed in people, we are sad because someone did not do something for us, did not live up to our expectations, which we ourselves placed on this person. The higher our expectations, the stronger and harder we will be disappointed in people. nine0003
Example
Anna dreamed of becoming a doctor since childhood, her father and grandfather had a medical specialty. But by coincidence, Anna did not manage to enter a medical university, and then she was disappointed that she did not receive the honorary status for herself - “honey student”. After Anna resigned herself to not becoming a doctor, she promised herself that her child would continue the family dynasty. When Anna's son grew up, he did not show interest in medicine, as Anna wanted. Only by persuasion Anna literally forced her son to read encyclopedias and learn chemistry at school. Remembering her dream, Anna, of course, wanted her son to apply to a medical university after graduation. But the boy acted differently - he passed the exams in physics and mathematics. When Anna found out this, for the second time in her life she experienced a terrible feeling of disappointment in a person, in her own son, because he hid his desire from her. nine0003
When a person experiences disappointment in people, in addition to sadness and sadness, he feels anger, pain, resentment, annoyance, loneliness, longing. A disappointed person no longer has a desire to rejoice, he can withdraw into himself, engage in self-digging, analyze why it happened that another person set him up like that, his hands drop, his head becomes heavy, headache and muscle pain may begin.
Important! The accumulation of negative emotions from disappointment can lead to serious health problems - somatic diseases, mental disorders and physiological pathologies can occur. If you do not know how to "live" negative emotions, seek help from a psychologist. nine0003
Factors leading to nervous tension
Provocative factors leading to emotional fluctuations and experiences include the following personality traits and events:
No. p / p | What makes us disappointed in people |
1. nine0003 | Such a personality trait as spinelessness and irresponsibility - we cannot solve a problem or task ourselves (often we are afraid that we will not cope) and shift it to another, and as a result we have to do everything ourselves and then be disappointed in the person. |
2. | High expectations - and in any area of life (at work, in the family). When we expect from a person what we cannot give ourselves, then, not receiving it, we are completely disappointed. nine0003 |
3. | Betrayal. A person will forever be disappointed in a relationship if the partner betrayed him. |
four. | Dependence on the opinions of others. If other people make decisions for a weak-willed person and tell him what and how it should be, then, of course, disappointment will overtake him sooner or later. nine0003 |
Severe disappointment in oneself, in life, in everything around can lead to serious consequences - the personality will degrade, psychological changes will begin, depressive states, up to suicidal thoughts.
How to survive disappointment
To reduce the emotional impact after experienced disappointment, a psychologist will help - a specialist who works with mental trauma, various syndromes and disorders. But if you do not have the opportunity to visit a psychologist, take these tips into service: nine0003
Book an online consultation with a psychologist if you find it difficult to cope with disappointment on your own. Our psychologists will help you neutralize negative emotions, enter a new stage in life and change your psychological attitudes.
FAQ
What is disappointment?
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Disappointment means a feeling of anxiety, sadness, anxiety due to unfulfilled hopes and desires that we place on our loved ones, friends, colleagues, and environment. If reality does not match our ideas of how it should be, we are disappointed. nine0003
What, in terms of psychology, gives us a feeling of disappointment?
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Frustration enables us to see our own needs and desires. After all, in fact, when we put our hopes on someone, we ourselves internally want it to be so, we feel a need for something.
Are there any advantages in the fact that we experience disappointment in loved ones?
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At first glance, it seems not, but in fact, the feeling of disappointment teaches us to see our desires and needs, take care of ourselves, respect our personal boundaries and not violate others, understand that not everything in the world depends on us. nine0003
Expert opinion
Disappointment is, in fact, our unfulfilled desires and dreams. Everything that we lay on someone else, we must be able to give it to ourselves. Then there will be no unnecessary illusions and sadness for imperfect deeds. Do not be afraid of disappointment, this is an inevitable condition in life, but so that it does not bring mental disorders, you need to know how to experience it.
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